Great Women always seem to be attracted to the Alcholics, Durg addicts, abusers, molesters, alulteriers, non supportive emotionally, spiritually, sexually, and physically. I am they type of guy who is friendly, kind compassionate patient non drug user/ non alchol consumer, non smoker, interested in the emotional, spiritual, physical, and social well being of my counter part who is more intersted in spending time with a woman rather spending time at the bars with the guys and/or two timing girlfriends, or monster truck rallys or sporting events, yet You women who desire these attributes end up with the other bottom dwelling losers who do what is listed above or the opposite of what you really desire. You women never go for the BEST, YOU SETTLE. HOW STUPID IS THAT?
2006-11-03 10:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by skiddy007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:) that's the wonder of life. and lessons learned.
2006-11-03 10:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 21 years old, and for whatever reason, I've always been attracted to older men. In fact, the oldest one was 19 years older than me! It seems that it would be easier to have a friendship and a flirtation than having a full out relationship. It's a big age difference, even if you both are attracted to each other. Also keep in mind that you both might have different things in mind. You may be looking for a serious relationship, whereas she's looking for someone to take her out and show her a good time, until someone closer to her age comes around. If you can both get past what others think, then great, but she's still pretty young and it might feel awkward to her. If you can keep the friendship alive then maybe it will slowly blossom into a romantic relationship. Just give her room to breathe and grow and don't make her feel like you're clinging to her, and don't make her feel like she's dating her father!!
2016-03-28 05:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it actually seems women do not really choose the right man.That happens if you desperately looking for a partner. What I will do if I need a man is date more than 3 men and study them for at least 1 year before I make my selection. And that person should be caring no matter his finanial situation.
2006-11-03 10:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ladyju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems that they see some qualities in them and if they see the bad they hope that the person would change.
Its not that they don't want a good man but sometime you can have a man who is such a good pretender, he only acts good around his woman.
But then there are some men who only would have one problem like drinking but he doesn't party or any of the other bad things. So the woman would think that she can be some influence on him so that he would change.
but in reality no one can change a person it should be up to that individual to change himself.
2006-11-03 10:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by csm 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here's a commonality:
A woman likes the danger, adventure, strongness, power of a bad boy. She wants him, she gets him, she wants him just the way he is, but, with one little exception. A while down the line, there's just one other thing he could do that would make him "perfect" in her eyes. Then another, and another and so on. Eventually, this bad boy is a whipped man and she doesn't want him anymore. The excitement's gone. She looks at bad boys and really wants in that relationship again. She says, "You just aren't the same man I married."
Here's the kicker.... men do this, too. To a lesser degree, though because women are stronger than men in their resolve.
2006-11-03 10:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is not neccessarily stupid, naive is a better word. We are attracted to bad boys, period. Unfortunately, we are immature at that point, once we mature we start to appreciate the good men. I also know it is a lack of confidence. A woman who is strong and confident will tear a loser up to pieces.
2006-11-03 10:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it depends what you define stupid as. if you define stupid as acting and making decisions based on your emotions, then yes they are stupid as hell. that's where your confusion comes from, you are expecting women to be logical. if you ask a woman why they pick a certain guy over another, they have no idea why. they
say they like nice guys but end up going for the jerks or assholes. in reality, they don't want a nice guy or a jerk, this stuff is secondary, they want someone who knows how to manipulate their emotions. women want someone who can 'take' them on an emotional rollercoaster; emphasizing the word 'take' since it's also key to be a MAN and take charge.
2006-11-07 09:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by casanova 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Or perhaps the question is better worded: why are women attracted to incredible losers but aren't attracted to me?
In my experience men who call themselves nice guys aren't. If you really want a good woman, you have to work for her attention. Not whine about not getting it.
2006-11-03 10:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by luckybluebunny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Woman just like to have fun, fun is with the drunk, drug addict. They don't think about the future. But women may say the same things about men
2006-11-03 11:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm one of those nice women and I don't go for those types of men at all...where have you been hiding, I've been looking for someone like you. lol.
2006-11-03 10:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are stupid for all the same reasons men are.
Two way street, always.
2006-11-03 10:03:18 · answer #11 · answered by misskate12001 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋