how can I stop a perv????????????????????

Question

I'm not going to say who it is, but its someone close to me. he is a true perv and its always towards me. how can i tell him to stop without hurting anyone else?

he's 50 and i'm twenty

when other people are around, he acts like a different person, i've mentioned something to him about it, and he still does it.

Answer 1

Smith and Wesson, steady hold and aim well

Answer 2

If someone is a pervert you must tell family, Police or friends. Tell it like it is and be honest. This person does not consider your feeling or the feelings of any one else. This person will find another victim if you do nothing. You are not the wrong one, these people have to be stopped and unfortunately you have been put in the position of doing the right thing. I hope it all works out for you.

Answer 3

You can't worry about hurting anyone else. You have to take control of the situation and tell him to stop, AND, that you are going to report him to the authorities. You say it is always towards you, but if you are not there, how can you be sure he is not perverting another young lady.

Answer 4

Make a scene..this man NEEDS to stop. If you embarrass him he should get the picture. Be explicit. If he lightly "accidentally" touches your breast, say something like.. " I would appreciate it if you would keep your hands off my breasts. Say it loudly enough so that others will hear and look your way. After a few episodes like this he will stop, I guarantee it. If later he tries again, get a restraining order against him...who knows if it will go from playful perverted touching to full blown rape? Your body is yours and no one elses, and NO ONE has the right to touch you and make you feel uncomfortable in any way.

Answer 5

I had to deal with someone like that at my job recently. I was bothered by him constantly and didnt know what to do. I didnt want to tell the boss on him because I was afraid of retaliation or of everyone calling me a snitch.It got so bad that he was reaching out to grab on me(and would of if I didnt have fast reflexes).I was afraid to be around him alone in fear of what he would say or try to do.Finally I talked to his supervisor and It stopped.Who cares what anyone one thinks, what about you?

Answer 6

You have to tell someone in authority about it. I don't know your age, but if you're under 18 this is a felony and he must be stopped. Don't hide it or worry about other people's feelings becuase obviously he doesn't care about them, or you, enough to control himself.
Also, if he has a problem he needs help. It's hard to be where you are, but you are strong enough to ask us for help. A good warm up for finally asking someone who can truly help you.
Good luck.

Answer 7

Whenever he does or says something creepy, LOOSE IT. Yell, scream, tell him exactly what he did. Maybe even leave, especially if you are at some function where it will be apparent to others that you are leaving because of him. If you let him think that his behavior is okay, you and others will be dealing with it forever.

Answer 8

Just tell him. Don't leave it. Don't worry about hurting someone else. Why should you be the one putting up with the unwanted attention.

Answer 9

Tell him you don't like it and to stop it and if he doesn't quit being his Friend. If he goes beyond the law, then anonymous tip to the police would work.

Answer 10

buy pepper spray and the next time he comes on to you, spray him in the eyes, that should work, but be sure to have a back-up plan, just in case he built up an immunity.