we were at a party, and neither of us was drunk, and we started to get closer and then he kissed me, but he's my friend a really good one and i dunno how that leaves things between us...soemtimes people think he's my boyfriend because well according to them we act like it but i dunno...it felt right, like it was supossed to happen a long time ago, but what if he was just having fun =S
2006-11-03 09:37:59 · 17 answers · asked by Alejandra J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and after a while he got turned on... but nothing happened i'mafraid he was just having fun
please help!
2006-11-03 09:39:24 · update #1
why are you asking us?
ASK HIM!
jesus... just ask him how he feels, dont be clingy or overly self conscious about it, because that will annoy him. just ask him if he wants to make something of it, or just stay friends.
we cant help you.
2006-11-03 09:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate situations like that. You feel you dont want to tell him it was more than fun for u because u are scared that u will scare him off if was just only fun for him but at the same time if he is really feelin you then u would be missing out on something that could be really good right? Give a few days and see how he reacts. Ask him to go see a cool movie or rent one if he makes up alot of excuses then... it was prolly just only fun for him.
TIME ALWAYS TELLS!
2006-11-03 09:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk with him since you two are good friends. Since he kissed you, he should be the one to say whether he likes you are not. Just ask him did he mean anything by the kiss. You can even mention that people sometimes ask if you are together, and after that kiss you weren't sure either. Let you know that you value your friendship but need to know what he's thinking. Don't feel obligated to tell him how you feel first. Good luck!
2006-11-03 10:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude was having fun, just cuz hes your friend and that you were being easy, But if that was to ever happen to me? I be like, "so uhh??? shall we try it? be a pair?"" or ahh! **** it your a cool *** bro". See what I mean? friends will always be friends, no matter what. there supposed to be there for that kind of ****. you know? How else are we going to practice? But if you want him as your significant other just tell him? if not? tell him that too. If he really cares he'd understand. like a real friend should. Its all up to you. Hope this helps? TAke care. LAter
2006-11-03 09:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by dougyazzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow!!!! Did you kiss him back??? Why is he made out with you?? It takes 2 to make uot....give it a try...sounds like you 2 have just been skirting the issue.
2006-11-03 09:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him. "Remember that night that you kissed me, were you just playing or was it serious?" If he's a real good friend he'll tell you. Plus if he really wants you he'll tell you if he's enough of a man. Toodles
2006-11-03 09:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by squeeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel about what happened and ask him it if changes things between the two of you or not...
2006-11-03 09:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you're freinds, right?
And you liked the kiss, right?
and he liked the kiss, right?
and it felt right, right?
and people think you are dating, right?
The problem is..... what again?
make it official, start dating already!
2006-11-03 10:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys both like each other. Just get together already.
2006-11-03 09:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by happyha31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u two are friends you might want to ask him out. the bad thing about that is that if he says no it might mess up your relationship
2006-11-03 09:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Monkeyboots92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋