People who live with their girl/boy friend!?

Question

How long was it before you decide to live together? And was it a good choose? I been with my man for a year and I want to live together but he says he ain't ready! What is an average time to wait?

The relationship is great. We raise our kids together, we have 4 all together. There is no cheating. And we spend 3-4 night together as is!

Answer 1

until you think, its cheaper to stay together rather hunting for hotels.. and you sure about you guys wont look around actively for other ppl.. atleast for some time..

Answer 2

We moved in together about the 6 month mark. And we are still very happy and in love after 2 years. We are getting ready to buy a home this coming year...

Your man might not be ready for such a commitment yet, if you feel he is worth then stay and if not move on...

Answer 3

Question is, WHY do you want to live together? I have lived with 2 of my exes and both times it happened quickly (within a couple months) and was largely for convenience. This is NOT a good reason!

I will never live with a SO again until the wedding date is set... It's just too awkward and painful to be "stuck" in a lease with someone when you realize the relationship is not going to work out.

Answer 4

Chances are if it's been a year and he still isn't ready then he never will be....either that or he's doin stuff that he isn't supposed to be doin'....either way you're wasting your time... he's obviously scared to take that next step and commit.

Answer 5

idk...its been a year. you would think after a year, he would know one way or the other. try asking him why isnt ready. dont ask unless you prepare for something you might not want to hear. good luck.