Should I tell her tonight?

Question

I started to like this best friend of mine three months ago. I haven't told her how I feel for her yet but I'm planning to tell her really soon. We are going out for supper tonight with another couple (bf & gf, not literally couple, lol) that are both friends of ours. I was encouraged to tell my crush how I feel tonight, but I'm not sure. Should I tell her tonight or sometime later? Because I think telling her about it in person when only two of us are together would relatively take off some pressure. Should I tell her tonight or later? Help!

Answer 1

i think you should tell her, but don't do it infront of the other couple or else you might screw things up. go outside or something and tell her you like her or hint at it by suggesting you go to a movie sometime. do it casually but be serious.

Answer 2

Tonight

Answer 3

You should tell her tonight, after the dinner, when the two of you are on your way home, or when you are alone together, you will be able to see how she reacts to what you say and judge her feelings as well. Has she given you any indication that she feels differently about you as well? I would tell her, but let her know that even if your feelings are not reciprocated that your friendship will remain the same!! Good luck !

Answer 4

I prefer things like this to be said when you feel the time is right. Look into her eyes and if something inside you says tonight is the night, then it is. But you should always wait to see what you can feel out. Tonight may not be the right night.

Once, a friend of mine wanted to take things to the next level and he simply kissed me. It was pretty romantic.

Answer 5

ok heres the dealeo...I would tell her tonight...when you are all out for supper, hopefulyl there is dancing or wait until there is dancing...when a slow song comes up, ask her to dance. and don't take NO for an answer...then while the two of you are slow dancing and feeling all romantic like...tell her then..but you will also know when the feeling is right, and u gotta do it in person. Over the phone. in a letter, email, text whatever else there is is no impersonal, she will love it more if you tell her in person..
GOOD LUCK HUN...

Answer 6

Tonight.

Answer 7

If it were me, I would wait. I know it's hard to not tell someone like that how you feel, but I have been in a very similar situation and I knew that the guy liked me in that way and I just liked him as a friend, and when he told me how he felt and I knew I didn't feel the same way, it ruined our friendship. I barely even talk to him anymore because of how awkward it is. If it is meant to be, and she feels the same way, it will be apparently obvious. But on the other hand, it is confusing to me, that she would agree to go out with you and another couple - which is basically a double date. I am stumped on this one, but in my experience, when I start to like a friend like that, it is always kind of obvious to both of us that we like each other.

Answer 8

Don't do it in front of other people!

First, she might feel like she's in the spot and reject you even if she really wants to say yes.

Second, it's a personal thing anyways between two people. Why ruin it by making it into a stage show during dinner?

LATER do it LATER. ALONE!

Answer 9

Tell her tonight when you two are alone that way as you said u will feel less pressure and good luck I hope she likes you back HUGS

Answer 10

ummm i say tonight BUT after you leave the other couple behind take her somewhere to get ice cream or something then when you two are all alone tell heryou have feelings for her make it romantic and special for the both of you

Answer 11

I would tell her when you get some alone time. Tell her that you need to talk to her alone at some point. That will make it seem like you have something important to tell her, but also gives her time to prepare mentally for the news and lets you know when he is ready to hear it. Good luck!