So I like this guy, my best friends older 19 yr old brother. Me and my best friend are both 17, and seniors. He is not in college and he works at our school as a maintance person. That might be weird, but whatever. Its not because their dad is the head engineer & so thats how he got the job.
Anyways. I know my friend would be tottaly cool if I told her I liked him, but She has a HUGE mouth, so I dont want to tell her because she'll tell all her other relatives, and that would be embarassing if he didnt feel the same way.
So, how can I tell how he feels about me without being obvious?
Are there any signs that might point out that he likes me as more that "just his sissy's friend"?
He's 19, like I said, and I'm 17, I'm not planning on having s.e.x with him or anything, so I dont think the whole "jail biat" things plays in here...
2006-11-03 09:20:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Talk to him. Just a chat about general things to gauge how he responds. If he responds and you have a real conversation, that would indicate that he likes. If he just grunts in response to what you say and keeps his sentences to two or three words, then hey, he's not for you.
2006-11-03 09:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big part of growing up is learning to just say what you actually mean. If you aren't planning on a sexual relationship, then it doesn't really matter if he likes you back or anything, so just tell him little girl.
2006-11-03 17:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he would like to go get some coffee or other beverage if you do not like coffee. The worst he can say is no thanks. and if he says no you will know.Guys take this risk often in the possibility of getting turned down, don't wait until someone else beats you to it, then all you will have to say is I wish I had.
2006-11-03 17:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to get up enough courage and do it. or get your friend to talk to him for you because youre gonna regret it if you dont. take it from someone just gettin out of a relationship that didnt work because of communication problems if you dont say something itll never happen
2006-11-03 17:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by bamabc25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him gift and put some notes that say you are interested in him. guys are not mind reader so you have to show him how to read.
2006-11-03 17:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋