ive been dating my gf for the past 2 1/2 months
and i think tht things are going to become sexual really soon. and i would like to spank her(non abusively) in the privacy of our bedroom.should i just ask her if she's into that b4 we become sexual or should i just go ahead and do it the 1st time we make love?
2006-11-03 09:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plz only serious answers
2006-11-03 09:18:51 · update #1
Please dont do that the first time you have sex with her... That will scare her especially if she doesn't have a lot of sexual experience. Find out how much sexual experience she has had. Ask questions and snoop (kinda) "what the kinkiest thing you have done" or "whats the freakiest thing you would do or want to do" or when your out at the mall somewhere and pat her but and see how she reacts... If she says OOOOOhhhh and kisses you then maybe its a good idea if you do it and she says what are doing and gives you a crazy look.... Please don't spank her...
Hope this helps
2006-11-03 09:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by kaliprincess82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that she should be aware of your intention first ?? She might not like the idea or might think that you're abusing her ...
you should have an open conversation about some sexual attitudes before you do anything that you might regret later
2006-11-03 09:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Taynha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just do it nicely but not the first time you do it with her. Id wait a few times so your more comfortable with eachother, shell let you know if she doesnt like it, its kind of a strange conversation to have, and if shes never had that before she wouldnt know if she likes it or not.
2006-11-03 09:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id wait on the spanking until you two get use to each other in bed, unless of course she screams do it then by all means!!
2006-11-03 09:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know if u got my advice but yeah u should wait and do it when u are ready completly and dont rush cause this moment wont come back so try to make the mst u can out of it
2006-11-03 09:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by no longer caligirl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit her down and have a talk about the kinda things your into she might surprise you with a few ideas of her own.
2006-11-03 09:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the first time should b e nice slow and very good feeling i think that later on in the relationship that you should try that. and to be anost i ahte when boys ask can they do something i say just do it and see my reawction to it.
2006-11-03 09:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would at least ask her how she feels about being spanked during sex before you lay one on her.
2006-11-03 09:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋