ok what do you think is an apropriate age for dading, going out? cause like i am in 7th grade and 13 and i like this 9th grader who is 14, and he is a very good guy, he doenst want to date me to have sex with me or anytihng but i was just wodering your opinion and how should i aproach this situation to my mother?
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-livi♥
2006-11-03 09:13:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't have any older sibilings then you should just ask your mom what she thinks about you dating. Don't try to butter her up first that will just make her think you want something. Come her to like an adult, "mom i really like this boy and I was wondering if maybe you could meet him and see what you think" Tell your mom that he likes you but you don't know how you feel yet about him.
To mention the date tell her thats a group of friends going to the movies or the mall and he wants to go with you as a group.. Dont mention One on One your going to have to sell the group especially if she isn't in to you dating yet..
Hope that helps...
2006-11-03 09:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by kaliprincess82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I know this is not what you want to hear, but we did not let my daughter date until she was a junior in HS. We felt she should be focusing on studies and grades, and boys were a distraction. Well she is now a senior in high school, with a 4.53 GPA (yes 4.53, not 3.53 - she is straight A+s in honors courses - sorry I have to brag a little), all honors and college level courses, and colleges now fighting over her. She is going into Theoretical Mathematics and they are always looking for female math majors. Some of her friends were boy crazy, had their minds on boys not homework, and are now on a fast track to walmart. One is pregnant.
BTW, she's a knock-out, not what most people think of as your typical "nerd". She would have had no problems getting dates, except her meanie parents got in the way. It probably helped that we live out in the stix, and she couldn't sneak out without us knowing it, so she had to ask us to take her places.
This may sound lousy now, but she really is thanking us for keeping her focused earlier on. It's already paying off for her.
2006-11-03 09:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by boonietech 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe 16 is the appropriate age for single dating.
I don't have an issue with kids going out in groups, though, at about 14.
2006-11-03 09:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, no younger than 15 if you go out with a guy in a group date situation. 16 for a solo date, with a curfew. If you want to see this certain guy before that then daytime events with friends only.
You really should concentrate on your education until then because you spell very poorly. But, you have nice manners. Good luck with your life.
2006-11-03 09:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think 15 or 16 is a good age to go out. If you are talking about going to a movie or a school dance may a little younger.
2006-11-03 09:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-09 02:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age group outings are OK with me, though I would worry some about the boy being older. I would have to know him and probably his parents. For real dating (one-on-one) you would have to be 16. Good luck and don't try to grow up so fast.
2006-11-03 09:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by babyred 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do young pepole feel like they are old enough to date!! whatever happend to hanging out with your girls and having fun???? dont get into all the boy drama leave it alone until you are old enough to know how to deal with a relationship have a job have a car and have your own place!
2006-11-03 09:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To do things as a "family" I wouldn't mind my daughter having her boyfriend over for supper or a movie and I would take them out somewhere, but to let her go out alone with him I would say probably 16. I would let her go with him and his parents or a parent at this age. Let her know you like this boy and he likes you and that you would like to have him over for supper one night if that is ok with her.
2006-11-03 09:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on your overall behavior. If you can be trusted I have a son who is going to be 14 tomorrow. He is always getting in trouble and I cannot trust him. Therefore NO DATING! Look at your whole situation you can probably answer it yourself.
2006-11-03 09:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Becky 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋