2006-11-03 09:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by Ash M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First question is : Did you do anything in the past to give him a reason to be like this ? 2nd : are you being 100% trustworthy ? If you are and if you've never broken the trust in this relationship, my guess is that either an ex-girlfriend or even his Mother (the first female figure in his life) did something that made him believe he cannot trust women, that way making him feel insecure. If I were you I would feel compassion for him and if you really love him, express your love to him to make him feel secure and to show him that you are being honest. Now, if you indeed did something to trigger his jealousy then you should take responsibility for your part. If you did something and he hasn't forgiven you and doesn't trust you anymore because of it, then if you still want him it's your job to rebuild the trust in this relationship. After each one of his "attacks" you need to reassure him that you have changed. Relationships make us grow.
Grow, baby,grow...
2006-11-03 09:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some jealousy is healthy, but "maniac" jealous is not good. Means he is very insecure about himself. He doesnt trust himself and until he does, he can then trust others. I wouldn't stay wtih him if it's that bad. . .is it really worth you getting up set over? He needs to learn how to treat you. GOod Luck!
2006-11-03 17:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there done that, and trust me you want to run far away from that crap. It's his problem and nothing you say or do will ever make it better, trust me..I don't miss that jealously bit whatsoever. My current relationship has no jealously in it and I love it. Life is too short to always have to have an alibi even when you have done nothing to need one. Good luck in whatever you choose to do.
2006-11-03 17:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by jrw3571 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing I've always done — hang out with whoever the hell I want. No man will control my social life, or any other aspect of my life, for that matter.
2006-11-03 22:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either find out the reason for his jealousy or leave him alone b/c it sounds like this could be a very BAD thing.
2006-11-03 17:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously re think your relationship, why are you with someone who has jealously issues, jealousy and trust go hand and hand, I hope you haven't done anything to make him not trust you? but you should think about finding someone else
2006-11-03 17:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start acting the same way to let him know how he's driving me crazy. If that doesn't work..dump him.
Cheers.
2006-11-03 17:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick his azz to the curb. Your relationship is going to be nothing but problems..Harsh but true mark my words...
2006-11-03 17:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and find a better boyfriend!
2006-11-03 17:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Best decision of my life
2006-11-03 17:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Myra G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋