i have a male friend. We started hanging out togeather 24/7. I thought that things were going great. We get along very well and have a great time when we are with each other. Well he just up and dissapeared. Well not totally but close enough now i never see him and when he calls its a very short conversation. Hes 36 and im 26 i think that we are to old to be playing games. I had no intentions on pursuing him any further but all his friends and family said that he really does like me. I dont know what i should do. Please Help.
2006-11-03 08:59:29 · 18 answers · asked by christal l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either you want him or you don't. If you do, be blunt, honest and willing to lose him. I wish you luck sweety.
2006-11-03 09:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this answer is a little different from all the other answers, but when a guy "disappears", that usually means he lost interest or found someone else. I had a guy "disappear" on me for awhile, while we were not dating but were getting to know each other, and I had not done anything wrong--he simply lost interest. The fact that he's 36 doesn't matter, men of any age, who are inconsiderate and cowards, disappear on women when they lose interest--but wouldn't it be nice that once men and women reach a certain age, men are straightforward?
2006-11-03 09:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to actually get involved with this guy and he likes you don't lead him on.Even if you did like like him yuck he's too old for you. Find him and have a conversation with him and tell him that you think you two are getting different signals from the relationship and that it would be best if it just stopped
2006-11-03 09:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by wii obsessed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any intentions on pursuing him any further, then tell him that. If he likes you, he wants you to like him back. And if you don't, then he doesn't want to get that close, which he sounds like he was. So he probably recoiled from you because he was afraid of getting hurt. Just tell him you want to be friends.
2006-11-03 09:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by jazzteen13x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be a phone guy, but if he's avoiding meeting up again in person, than his friends may just be wrong.
One question though: Why are you talking to his family and friends and not him? Is it possible that you're getting to into his business and that's scaring him off?
2006-11-03 09:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he want romance and you just wanted friendship.
If that is the case he reaized that it was not going to go any further and stopped. Men dont want to be just friends I know that is hard to believe but it is true
2006-11-03 09:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time and talk to him about it and don't let him get away without telling you what's going on. Do it in person,not on the phone.
2006-11-03 09:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by lumberman57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am not a guy, but my advise is to tell him exactly how you feel. He cant read minds and the only he is going to know how your feeling is by you telling him.
2006-11-03 09:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him out for dinner and drinks. Spend some time out and find out whats going on with him
2006-11-03 09:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by jcrull70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋