After getting back together with a girlfriend that you broke up with because she met someone on the web, did you want her to not have a connection for a while to heal?
2006-11-03 08:50:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, that's just lame.
2006-11-03 08:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I'm not a jealous psychopath.
Just because she found love on the Internet doesn't mean that it's the Internet's fault.
If she picked up a phone and called those stupid chat lines and found a guy, would you not allow her to call people? If she found a new guy on the street, would you chain her to your bedpost forever?
The point is NOT the Internet, the point is that SHE is a CHEATER and more often than not, "once a cheater, always a cheater."
2006-11-03 16:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look here is something you need to understand and once you do...you'll get it...you can not stop someone from doing what it is they want to do...say you did take her net and you banned her from leaving and all that jazz. if she still wants to cheat trust and believe none of what you do will stop her. stop worrying about keeping her from cheating and worry about you...if you've been nothing but good and supportive and loving and she still goes out to cheat then why waste your time...you've done it all and nothing wrong what more can you do...now i cheated on my boyfriend with some guy over the phone...i told him and it messed up things between us..slowly everyday we work it out and no...not everyone goes out to cheat again it was a rash foolish decision and I was and still am extremely sorry and ever since then i won't even look at another man...like I said worry about you and what you do you can only do so much for someone and if they still wanna go then LET THEM GO!...stop stressing over the things you have no control over. your girlfriend is one of those things
2006-11-03 17:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by TPete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman with a husband that actually has a problem with pornography. So yes, I completely agree, Our therepist says he shouldn't use the computer for awhile so he can overcome this, but to answer your question, for healing of you and to begin the trust factor no computer for awhile. Good Luck
2006-11-03 16:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋