She wants to use her dildos/strapon on me. She said her gfs told her that they have done it to their bfs & nothing wrong with it & does not make a man gay ,if his gf does it to him. Is she right ? Do u girls ask ur guys for that ? Is it women dominance & power over men is a turn on now ?
2006-11-03 08:38:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CoCo ... people are 'discovering' the world of kinky sex and alternative lifestyles.
As a 'card carrying member' of that lifestyle, my answer is that nothing is a common fetish. Some have fetishes, some don't; some are just curious and experimenting - it's all good as long as all parties are in complete agreement and consent to the play. Kinky does NOT translate to gay, lesbian or bi-sexual - those are not lifestyle choices, but hardwired sexual orientations.
HOWEVER, please know that IF your girlfriend isn't totally familiar with the 'territory' (the anus), and IF you are not fully prepared to receive such, there could be dangerous consequences. It's not for the uninitiated or unwilling.
If you both decide to try this particular form of kink, please go slowly, use LOTS of lube (a really good surgi-lube works well and is water soluble for cleanup). It's possible to tear the colon if one isn't careful and that's extremely dangerous (read hospital time and possible infection/death).
BE CAREFUL and have fun with your sex life. :)
2006-11-03 08:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by jtspet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is disgusting and painfull and seems unnatural, you aslo can ask her is she will be agree that I to use the same dildo in her back if she enjoys it if not she should for get this action. she is crazy and may be want to take a revenge from you that you are doing in side her and she want to do it with the dildo lolz.
2006-11-03 16:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by creed 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never! That is disgusting and frankly wrong! If the Creator wanted me to have the "outy" then I would be a man instead of a woman. Why would anyone want do degrade their man that way?
2006-11-03 16:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have hear of some women being into this. I'm a guy that likes to throw in in my girls A** but I have never had a women want to do me. Sh*t she must be a pretty kinky chic! Don't let that one get away.
2006-11-03 16:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by drakekse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow That's new! It has to be just your girl but I guess it depends on the person. Is she saying that she is in to sex with gay guys because that what it seems like
2006-11-03 17:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~InEvItAbLe~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just your girl, sweetie. Gay men want something up their rear end. If your girl wants to dominate you, let her tie you up or be on top. Basically, if it makes you uncomfortable, dont let her do it.
2006-11-03 17:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by luvlee_lolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definately depends on the couple for sure. You BOTH have to feel comfortable to experience those types of sexual pleasures on one another. She may like e-devices, offer to use them on her. If you don't want that type of "kinkiness" let her know and find another way to freak her out sexually. It sounds like she wants some adventure.
2006-11-03 16:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by J D 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with jtspet.....
and I try to get my guy that way too, he won't hear of it
it is a dominance thing with me....and I did it with another guy...he liked it, it is very pleasurable if done properly
2006-11-03 17:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to know if you are gay. Dont do it if you are truly uncomfortable with it or you feel like it would question your man hood. Tell her if she wants to use a strap on, she needs to be honest with herself and figure out whether she is bi-sexual or gay. Now, I know that some women like to use vibrators with their partners, but shy away from ones that resemble penises.
2006-11-03 16:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by vanity planning 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have joked with by bfrd about that, but to be honest with you I would be very disturbed if he encourged it or agreed to it. Just the thought of my dude liking something in his *&& makes me ill...I would NOT find this to be a turn on for me, and as far as I know for none of my close friends either!
2006-11-03 16:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by jrw3571 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋