I like this girl who I think likes me (she started the first conversation, she purposely sits by me), but i asked her out and she said she didn't think of people as boyfriends. Does she really mean that, or is she playing hard to get and i should ask her out again?
2006-11-03 08:36:09 · 14 answers · asked by Kenny Smooth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her what she means by she doesn't think of people as boyfriends? You have to ask her if she really believes that.... you wont know what that chicka is thinking unless you talk to her. I'd definitely talk to her before you try to ask her out again.
I have a friend that doesn't ever want to get married. She goes out with guys, even has a boyfriend but hates the thought of marriage. I thought she was really wierd, but I talked to her about it, and she totally explained everything. So now I understand where she is coming from. That's you need to do. I hope everything works out.
2006-11-03 08:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like alot of the other advice here, but it sounds like she is telling you that she doesnt want a boyfriend right now....often a girl uses this as a way of saying "not interested" without hurting our feelings.....if i were you, i would get around this by seeing if she wants to meet up and study (i suppose she sits by you in class) for the next tests.... and just get to know her as a friend....keep the conversation light and the come-ons at a minimum (flirty, but not overly aggressive or complimentative) or she will know you are up to something....whatever you do, do not "ask her out" again...she would have said yes if she wanted to! so now you will have to be more cautious and camouflage your interest for now until you let her see your great personality! good luck
2006-11-03 16:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by derek s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you and just doesnt want to admit it. well if i was you and a guy then i would ask the women out again cuz maybe she is just try to play hard to get.
2006-11-03 16:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing hard to get. I would wait about two weeks then ask her out again and stress to her that you want to be friends and get to know her better.
Good luck =)
2006-11-03 16:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kenny, instead of "asking her out" why don't you try something less official like invite her to some pizza or something. Start out with no strings attached and see what it turns into (if anything). Good luck.
2006-11-03 16:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by J D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just doesn't want a relationship right now. Give her some time and then ask her again.
2006-11-03 16:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask her out. Just do it differently. Ask her to meet you at the mall to buy something for your mom. Then go for pop and pizza. Sly, I know, but I'm sure it will work. lol Hugs
2006-11-03 16:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask again you play hard to get and see what her reaction will be.
2006-11-03 16:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask out someone else and make yourself seen with the new girl she will change her mind.
2006-11-03 16:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just "pal around" with her for a while -- she might just want to enjoy the chase for a while -- follow other pursuits while you wait and see if this one ever pans out in case she really isn't interested in anything other than friendship
oh yeah... and grow a beard Mr Smoothy (maybe thats the problem...)
2006-11-03 16:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Zee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋