should i stay or should i go?

Question

i've fallen in love with my bf but some questions have been raised in the past couple of weeks. for our anniversary, i wrote him a love letter. in it i mentioned that 'i have seen past his faults.romantic? i thought so. but after reading it he then asked me "what are my faults?" we had an arguement about it, my point of view being that if i told him, he would worry about it everytime we're out together, his being that we should be open about EVERYTHING in our relationship. i finally told him SOME of them and he told me that "you know i can't change that".i agreed. but later in our conversation, he said some things that came out quite odd.he's a republican and i'm a democrat and when we talk about politics, it seems as if he's trying to push my buttons. he even mentioned that he likes manipulating people into thinking what he thinks about political issues. he gets paranoid about the government and he mentioned that he would like to use a sweep in his room to check for cameras. advice?

He told me my faults and he said that I get get jealous too much. He goes to school an hour away and i never know what he could be up to. I trust him but not other females. And he has a LOT of female friends. He says that it wouldn't bother him if i had a lot of guy friends but i know that it's not the truth. He's even gone and copied and saved comments my friends have left on my myspace.

Answer 1

he is funny. if you love him. just let him be.

Answer 2

uh... Date within your political party? joke. Look at it this way. If he wrote a love letter to you saying he has looked past your faults... how would you feel? Doesn't sound very romantic does it?

Thats like saying "I don't care if you are not as pretty as i would hope" while exchanging wedding vows.

Answer 3

I didn't even read this long spiel. If you are asking this question... You should GO!

Answer 4

get rid of him

Answer 5

weird!

Answer 6

crazy........