question.FOR ALL U GIRLS OUT THERE PLEASE?

Question

what do you girls look for in a guy? personality-wise and looks? i wantta know because im trying to get this babe, and its just not working that well. i need some LONG answers from u girls..cuz its kinda bugging me... ALSO , why do girls act like they know WE want them, so they kinda hold it back and act like they dont NEED us...its odd........ but i want to know what u want in a guy.... A FULL DESCRIPTION

Answer 1

You are so funny! LOL
"Im trying to get this babe" LOL
What I personally look for is great personality. That includes sense of humor, kind, understanding, romantic, and faithful (thats an important one).
I like a guy who can laugh at them selves when they mess up or do something embarrasing. The way they look is not that important to me.

Answer 2

Personality wise - I go for someone who is smart and carry a good conversation. Even though they say opposites attract, I feel as far as personality goes, its the other way around. You like people that are like you, or share similar interests.
Looks wise - Its been proven that you are genetically attracted to only certain type of people. If you like blonde hair, you not gonna be with a brunette. So there you go, everyone is different.
Girls like to be chased...thats why this chick is not giving you any attention or it could be that she does not like you. You could try two things, one..talk to her straight up and ask whats going on, or you could play the game and stop giving her the attention. If she really likes you, she will show some interest in you.

Answer 3

It's called the power of the P***Y. We like to play the game just as well as you fellas out there but we just do it a little bit more on the sly side. I personnally go for tall (over 5'11"). Charming in a witty fun way. Sensitive- ONLY when it comes to a sick loved one, loosing their dog, or the fear of loosing me. Sexy- in a I want your body every night. Passionate- in the way he will take his time in the bedroom and he will take the time out to make the relationship work. Loving and Caring- the type that will bring me flowers out of the blue (he doesn't have to do it all the time). Also the type that won't forget my birthday. He definitly has to be very funny...I am a very sarcastic and humorous person and I want that in return. There's nothing like a good laugh. Above all just be your self from the get go because it will eventually come out sooner or later and you don't want that to be a weird situation. Good Luck.

Answer 4

I want a confident guy that is not afraid to say what he wants or tell me he loves me. I want someone that can be with me and not have to touch me and still be happy cuz he's with me. someone who can get called at 7:00 in the morning on the weekend and still come pick me up no matter how tired he is. I want someone that can treat me right but not spoil me with no end. we know you want us and we want you too. It's just no girl I know wants to be seen as needing a guy to be there for us. we kinda do need someone to love us and that we can love back. we just aren't as open about how we feel like some guys are and that can send mixed emotions. well hope that was enough for you.

Answer 5

My dream guy would have spikey hair, NO FRECKLES, nd taller and older than me. He must be romantic as well. Ever heard of pms???? Well thats why we act that way, chicken. I'm SUPPOSED to be meeting up with a really nice guy for the first time tomorrow, but all of a sudden he's igoring me! When im on my own i cry and cry and im waiting for him to text me so i turned my phone off earlier on today and every now and than i turn it on and when he still hasnt texted me i threw my phone across the room. I act like i don't care about him in front of my friends but really I miss him so much. So if a girl ever acts like she doesn't care YOU should know deep inside that she really does. GOOD LUCK! xxx

Answer 6

Hi,

I can not answer for all girls because we are all so different. You should pay close attention to her and try to get a feel for what she likes. As for me the main thing is he has to be able to make me laugh and feel special. If you can accomplish those to things then you should be ok. Girls like to play hard to get to see if you guys are up to the challenge of catching us. Acting like we don't need all is our way of being independent. It is not an easy task relying on someone else. Just pay attention to her and keep trying. It will happen if it is suppose to.

Answer 7

I look for a nice guy who will respect me always and treat me well. Looks don't really matter to most of us girls, but it can definitely make us interested in guys and make us want to get to know them. The most important, however, is the personality of the guy. He should be a nice guy with a sense of humor, sensitive but not too much.

As far as the whole "we don't need you thing", I think most girls do it to make the guy more interested. I think that their thought is, "maybe if I show him I don't need him, he'll be more interested in me, because he'll think that if I can get any guy, why would I want him?" I know, it's shallow, but guys are shallow sometimes and we have the right to be too, right?

So if you want to win a girls heart, just be as kind and loving as possible, ALWAYS respectful to her and her needs and that's about it. We don't ask much of men just to love us, respect us, and be loyal. Good luck!

Answer 8

First of all its a BIG turnoff to call girls 'babes'.
Second of all I am looking for a guy that has a good sense of humor, a good heart, smart, and cute.
Third of all girls act like they know that you want them because most guys like girls that play hard to get.

I REALLY HOPE THAT I HELPED!!!

P.S. If you are genuinely serious to become this girls boyfriend than she should see the real you, don't change yourself for others.

Answer 9

the best way for me to answer you is to be straight up

i'm 24 yrs old and i've just found the person i want for life.
he is my best friend. he's 5'10, white, black hair, hazel eyes. but it's not his looks. he's a true gentleman, he's not a dog. he's sweet, kind, considerate, he listens, looks for the good in everyone, helps people, he's docile and so easy to get along with. plus he likes my daughter.

women can be as mean and cruel as some men. it's a game, they're just trying to be cute, and they like to feel they're in control.
alot of girls today want to be with guys that are players, dogs and users. they let the decent ones slip by, i used to be like those girls too. until i grew up.

look, you seem like a decent dude, just try, if it don't work, forget her. there's a girl out there for you, a girl that deserves someone like you. decent guys should not be treated like trash by any girl.

good luck homeboy

Answer 10

I'd like a guy who has a real good body with nice strong abs and arms. He has to have sexy dark eyes with dark hair-either emo style (long and the fringe is cut side ways) or like nearly bold with a millimetre of hair left! lol. he has to have a nice skin tone- any..i'm not racist!! he has to be funny, protect me, hold me, kiss me at the rihgt moments, want me not just for sex but for love, he has to stand out from the crowd, help people, not heat on me, talk a lot bout everything and anything...i love to listen, he has to say sweet stuff everyday, be good to people and...well its a long list...
girls just pretend to hold it back to get more attention. they do it so they feel good bout themselves and they want you to make the first move and are expecting in soon. i think you should just be yourself, dont let anyone judge you. i mean i want all these qualities in a guy but i know that i wouldnt find them in one cos everyones different. try to talk to her and make her feel less nervous, if she skips you just try once more and after that give up cos shes not worth all your time and energy. Find someone who deserves you instead of rejecting you. If you asked her and she said nothing then pretend to ignore her completely. If she likes you she will come to you later when she has the guts to. Im sure it will work out fine!!! goodluck