Tell her you are not interested in her sexually and if she contiues to pursue that avenue you will no longer be able to continue being friends with her.
2006-11-03 08:16:09
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answered by Starla_C 7
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Same thing happened to me when I was 16. She was my bestfriend from 8th-10th grade.
I was gonna spend the night at her house until she got out some cherry nipple lotion, started sitting close to me on the bed, asking me if I ever tasted it before. I jumped up and went out to call my mom to pick me up.
When I confronted her with the facts on Monday. She can be who she wants, just dont drag me in it, we were good... for a week.
One day we skip the last two classes to visit her 20 yo boyfriend who had knee surgery. I go to the bathroom and when I come back, you could cut the tension with a knife. She asks if Id like to have a threesome. I said **** Chris, I havent even had a twosome yet.
She hit on me one more time with her guy while were at a park getting high. I ended it there because of her blatant lack of respect.
2006-11-03 16:25:31
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answered by Anonymous
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There is a difference between friendship, love and lust and it would seem that her perspective of the relationship that you have is blurred. Define the boundaries and enforce them!
Understand that she may be your best friend, but evidently you are not hers or she would respect your wishes. Her being gay is not a bad thing, her not respecting your wishes is.
2006-11-03 16:29:15
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answered by ebizartistry 1
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Unn uhh tell her don't play that shyt around you. Just becuase she is one doesn't make you one. She needs to understand that you respect her and you can still be her best friend but you are off limits as far as anything lesbian is concerned!
2006-11-03 16:16:39
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answered by Miss Thang 6
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She is not a friend if she will not take no for an answer. It is great to be a lesbian. I know because I am one. But we are respectful people and so you need to tell her to back off.
2006-11-03 16:16:26
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answered by Isis 7
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Come on, what would you do if a guy did hte same thing? Tell her you're not interested, my best friends bi and asked me the same thing i said no and it was dropped after that, if she's really your best friend, she'll understand
2006-11-03 16:17:48
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answered by graciegirl 5
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I think it is unnatural and not good for health and further is like a sick mentality. Go for naturel and dont go to abide by her tell her frankly I cant do it excuse me and better for her not to do it.
2006-11-03 16:28:19
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answered by creed 1 3
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Well, if she won't respect the fact that you've repeatedly told her no and persists in trying to 'do you', she's not your best friend.
2006-11-03 16:27:32
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answered by Special nobody 5
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You need to stand up for yourself, and when you tell her no , you need to make sure that she know you mean NO but if you keep leading her on she'll keep trying you.
2006-11-03 16:21:39
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answered by This is just my opinion! 4
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Just tell her to back off... If she won't get rid of her and her so called "friendship"
2006-11-03 16:17:29
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answered by movu101779 3
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