My bf like to go to the strip club like twice a month. Mostly on friday's. I really hate it. He always invites me to go with him and i always go. I just have a hard time getting comfortable and relaxing. I know most would say drink but i am an emotional drinker. Any suggestions how i should act or keep myself calm without wanting to leave 10 minutes after arriving? Thank you
2006-11-03 08:11:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is not something you are comfortable with, then you shouldn't have to do it just to keep the relationship going.
Have a chat with him and find out if he is understanding enough to give that part of his life up (He should, if he loves you that much.)
If he's not willing to give it up, then you have to decide if it's something you can put up with, no matter how much you like him or how great he is.
If you can, then stay. If not, then leave him as you will never be happy with him and will get more stressed out as time goes by.
2006-11-03 08:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my sister....I was the same way.First off you need to trust your man. If the trust is there,then remember this. A stripper is there for only one reason....To make her money. They see couples like you everyday. If you are an emotional drinker then I suggest having one drink(ask the bartender to make you a cran. & vodka, but very easy vodka)this will loosen you up. Then ask your man to buy YOU a lap dance and let him pick out the girl. He will love you and be more attentive to you from there on out. Try it.
2006-11-03 08:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well #1 be honest with him. Tell him how you feel about him going to the club with all of the other girls. Make sure he understands how you feel about it. #2 don't be offended that he likes to go. Usually it is just a place where guys like to go with other guys and have a good time.
2006-11-03 08:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much of a boy friend if he 1) goes to strip clubs and 2) wants his girl friend to go with him. Time to find someone that wants you and respects you.
2006-11-03 08:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you jealous of the strippers or just embarrassed? Either way, I think he asks you to go with him to either show you that he isn't "cheating" or it helps keep him on the straight and narrow. Try to get over old fashioned and over rated morals and enjoy the sensuality of it.
2006-11-03 08:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go with, try to keep your mind on your bf. Maybe it will turn him on that you went and were able to stay with out getting mad or emotional.
2006-11-03 08:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf used to want to do the same thing till I started wearing my sexy top and showing a little boob all the guys started hittin on me then he was ready to go...
2006-11-03 08:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like to go and don't go...
2006-11-03 08:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least he doesn't wanna go every weekend!-imagine that...
2006-11-03 08:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go?
2006-11-03 08:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Barbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋