There is a boy in my class who always wants to touch me with every way he can, he looks at me all the time, and he is interested about everything that concern me(when i am sad he wants to talk with me, when i listen to music, he asks me, what kind of music i hear because he wants to listen the song i hear too with me). And i think that i feel something strong about him. 1)Does he want me? 2)If we are a couple, will we be together for ever? 3)I do not want to be hurt, i had never a boyfriend in my life and i do not want to be hurt from my first boyfriend, if of course we are together.
2006-11-03 08:07:59 · 34 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that he definitely is interested in you and he probably does want to date you. He wouldn't spend all that time trying to engage you in conversation if he didn't care. However, no one can know if they will be with anyone forever. But that shouldn't deter you from going out with him. Being hurt does suck...but you wont live your life if you are always afraid of what might hurt you. You should go for it and if it doesn't work out just know that it wasn't meant to be and you will find someone else that will love you that much more. You wont ever have your first boyfriend if you don't get that first boyfriend...first relationships are hard. But then you will have all this experience and know exactly what you want out of a relationship for the next time around if this one doesn't work out. Go for it!
2006-11-03 08:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by kela_kittykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
From what you say it sounds like he is interested in you. Nobody can ever tell if two people will be together forever it honestly depends on the two people. With it being your first possible boyfriend then more than likely no it will not be forever (although it does happen). You have to remember you will date many sweet guys, many, jerks, and many friends. They are all suppose to be learning experiences (such as what you do and don't want out of a relationship). Lastly, many guys are going to hurt you, but how will you ever find the one if you do not go through a couple of jerks first? You will never know the outcome unless you take a risk.
2006-11-03 08:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by young mom of two 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, he likes you.
2. No chances are will not be together forever. It is highly unlikely, but not impossible, odds are stacke against this happening.
3. If you do not want to be hurt, then you cannot date. Chances are that you will be hurt by someone in this lifetime, dating wise.
I'm sorry hun, I've not heard of anyone ever going through life and dating without feeling some pain or let-down. It's a part of love and more importantly a part of life. However, it will all be worth it as you will see when you get a bit older.
2006-11-03 08:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is truly sweet that he is so interested in what you are into. There is no way for anyone to tell you whether you will be with him forever. What I can tell you is that if you do get together and he ends up being your first love, a part of you will stay with each other forever. First love is special and noone can take it from you. That does not mean you will always be with him though. Don't deny yourself a relationship because of the fear of being hurt. Maybe he will hurt you and maybe he won't. You will never know unless you let down your guards.
2006-11-03 08:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want serious answers you have to ask serious questions first off how many people do you know are married forever to the first boyfriend they had? So the chances of you getting hurt w/your first are like 100% Also get used to it this is one of many that you have to go through in order to learn how to function in more serious levels of relationships the experience and hurt is necessary to learn about life its sad but true. Will you be together forever now come on how would anyone be able to answer that but honastly everyone could probly truthfully tell you no you wlill not be its possible though, but vary vary vary unlikely Good Luck
2006-11-03 08:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you but make sure that he doesn't just want you for the draws. Don't give it up until you can be sure that you care about him. Chances are you won't be together forever, simply b/c as people get older they're interests change and people grow apart. You will probably be hurt if he just wants to play around and touch you or whatever. So be careful.
2006-11-03 08:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very interested in you, but its way too soon to tell if you will be together forever. No one wants to be hurt by a relationship, but that's the chance you take if you want to find true love.
If he hasn't mentioned going out yet, he may be waiting for a sign from you. Maybe you could ask him what he is doing this weekend and if its something in a public place, you and your friends could go there too and "bump into him."
2006-11-03 08:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by JenJen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're going to have to have a 'first boyfriend' sometime, so why not make it this guy. See if he's doing these things to other girls or just you. The chances you will be together forever are very small but you never know... But from what you've said he's sounds pretty keen so got for it!
2006-11-03 08:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by Elle :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Yes, but not in the way you want him
2) No, you won't be together 4 ever.. that is dreaming
3) You will be hurt.. many times before you find Mr. Right, so just take it as a life lesson and move past it when it happens. You have to learn what you don't like before you appreciate who is RIGHT
2006-11-03 08:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Billy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word is 1st boyfriend. Its not unheard of to last with your first but very rare. My advice is take it for what it is, if it works out great if it doesn't then use it as a learning experience for the next time you fall for someone. By know means not date because your worried your going to get hurt!! how else are you going to experience life if you don't take the chance.
2006-11-03 08:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋