i dont feel guilty. is it possible to have a great relationship wiht my husband and never telll him about it?
2006-11-03 08:03:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to feel a little bit of guilt by your actions. If not then you simply don't care about your husband. If you didn't mean it and wont do it again i wouldn't tell him because that could ruin your relationship for good. Otherwise i would end the relationship if you care to continue what you did.
2006-11-03 08:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never have the same with your husband as you once did. You have violated the "golden rule" of marriage. You committed adultery. Evidently you don't love your husband as much as you think you do. Telling him sooner or later is something you will have to deal with. But when you do, you may as well pack your bags, because he is going to tell you your marriage is over. I know I would not tolerate infidelity at all. I would put you on the road and tell you to never come back. I bet when the dust settles you will find out the grass was not greener.
2006-11-03 08:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fool, what about her/his family life. This is what started my family downhill because guilt set in at a later date.
What makes people like you feel that the world owes you a favor. Your married, do you have kids? if they were old enough would you sit down and, face to face, Tell them what you did?
Let this incident go and don't go around bragging about it for Pete's sake, you have no right. What are you going to do when and if his spouse finds out, and maybe, comes looking for you?
2006-11-03 08:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you can keep your mouth shut and don't do it too often. If you make a regular habit or have an affair, it will show in your relationship and he will get suspicious. Then you run the risk of losing your marriage.
2006-11-03 08:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by brucenjacobs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOO...IM tellin!!!! Damn thats messed up!! But ish happens...I don't think you should make it a habit im pretty sure I will cheat on my husband one day too(lol) who knows. Just don't start acting crazy!! I always think of my relationship this way...IM only as faithful as the person im with and if he is a good guy (sure!) then i see it as how would i feel if he was givin my goods away!!
2006-11-03 08:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by sweetchic117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that the quilt of the situation would tear at you. If you are truly in love with your husband you would be honest and open and tell him that you cheated and that you are human. Don't hide it from him, I would think that he would get more upset at not knowing, but if you willingly came forward and talked to him about it it would be better.
2006-11-03 08:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You may not be guilty now but you will be. You will do it again and finally want to be with the other person. Fess up and take your lumps and move on.
2006-11-03 08:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, If you're feel cheating is right. Think about this. How would you feel if he (husband) were doing the same behind your back?
2006-11-03 08:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not. You already see him as a fool...someone who you obviously don't respect, or love. Leave him or show some integrity and don't have affairs.
2006-11-03 08:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel guilty then I pity you, because you have no self esteem left.
2006-11-03 08:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋