I met this guy and he acted like was totally into me. He would call me several times a day, ask to stop by and see me and we would have good conversations. The last time he stopped by he kept telling me that I gave him butterflies and how pretty I am.He asked me for a hug and it was a more romantic than friendly hug, we almost kissed. But it seems like a few days after that, his whole demeanor changed. He felt it necessary to keep repeating that he was just getting out a relationship and that he and I were "just friends" (eventho' I'd never said anything about a relationship!) I agreed with him and tried to keep things light hearted. He stopped calling and I thought it might be wise for me to do the same and give him some space. But it's been a week and I have not heard from him at all !! I don't know if I should just not call at all and leave him be or make a last attempt at contacting him.
And what does him have getting out a relationship have to do with anything?!!
2006-11-03 07:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being that he just got out of a relationship he could be a little screwed up. You don't know what happened do you? If not you should give him the space and if he really likes you he will respect you more for resoecting him for needing space. I would call maybe once just to say hi and to be a friend. If he wants to initiate more than go with it. Good Luck!
2006-11-03 08:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just confusion. Getting out of any relationship changes your entire world, and you're not really sure of anything. He sounds like he cannot make up his mind about whether or not he likes you. I think you should call him and ask him to come talk to you and sit him down and let him know of your feelings on the topic. Open the lines of communication with him and tell him what you want from him.
2006-11-03 08:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it has to do with anything is this....he doesnt want to get into another realtionship...the attention he was displaying to you was from his rebound...he probably is a decent fellow and doesnt want to hurt you when he cant commit because he is still thinking of "her"...if youre smart you will let him be until he is done getting things straight in his head...besides the rebound realationship never lasts..right??
2006-11-03 08:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well anytime that you are getting out of a relationship it hurts. If he just got out of relationship he may not want to get right back into another one. Make sure that you give him his space for awhile and he will come back.
2006-11-03 08:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it might be hard but you have to not call him.He will come around if he really wants to.
Why should you get hurt when he was the one who stoped talking to you?
He don't know what he is missing.
2006-11-03 08:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks of you romantically but doesnt want to go straight into another relationship.
if you like him call him and let things go really slow and easy.
2006-11-03 08:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....he just ended a relationship, he confused, probably on a rebound , dont wast you time, trust me
2006-11-03 08:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him. he seems to be back to his old flame now. you were a rebound. find someone else.
2006-11-03 08:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋