im not sure what i do now..im in HS and there is this really hot girl. and she liked me for a little while, maybe a week. and then i REALLY wanted to ask her out during that week. but i just felt like when i did it i had to be creative and i had to do it PERFECTLY. i wanted it to last and not die in a week, like normal relationships. so i held off and held off. NOW..she told one of my friends that i make her feel uncomfortable now...and i wrote her a note telling her how i felt and why i didnt ask her out, so i basically blurted EVERYTHING out to her. and now i really really want her...but i need something to redeem myself. i dont know..but i REALLY want her back...
PLEASE HELP!!!a
2006-11-03 07:59:10 · 5 answers · asked by eli b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH yeah.....and she said that she just wants to be friends because she was uncomfortable around me. idk what this means...but i know shes been acting weird. in THeatre class, (a class i have with her) we have a game where we just randomly push ppl off the stage. and when i saw a kid getting ready to push her.....i thought id be a good friend and break her fall by catching her. but she was on the break of falling and she saw me ...and she jumped the other way and fell on her ***.....idk...but if it were me id want someone to catch me instead of me falling rite on my ***.....that means she must REALLY hate me..and i dont know WHAT i did......i dont think ive changed in anyway toward her.... HELP ME OUT GUYS
2006-11-03 08:02:15 · update #1
PLUS....i really dont wanna sound desperate..and we were talking like good friends for like a week..."THEN" she started to like me for a week.....now im pissed...i dont THINK i was too "clingy" to her or desperate.....
2006-11-03 08:10:08 · update #2
First off, you never had her. Now she probably thinks you are too into her and acting a little crazy/clingy. All you can do know is act very cool and occassionally, like maybe once every two or three days look at her in a "I'm checking you out" kind of way so that she knows that you are still interested but no longer desperate. Otherwise, forget it, you may have blown your chances here. I speak from experience, both from your perspective and from when it has happened to me from the girl's perspective. Its difficult to recover from being seen as too clingy.
2006-11-03 08:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simply confident feedback and now not me being imply I promise. First you stated you went out with B final yr and made a mistake. Everyone makes errors I am now not judging however you're NOT entitled to a moment threat whilst you offens a romantic intrest or a pal. In an ultimate global you could get one however truly lifestyles does not paintings like that. Secondly if she is not intrested she may not abruptly come to be intrested. Maybe you're greater peers however that does not imply she needs so far you. It way she thinks you're a well pal. Why on the planet could you ask a woman out on a textual content message?!?! I could have grew to become Ýou down too. No offense however its now not a delicate transfer. Man up and ask a woman out to her face. If she says no you attempted. If she says sure you are going to see her face and understand how precise she is. Seriously if you happen to desire to be a delicate man NEVER ask a woman out or get a divorce with a woman on a textual content. EVER. Take a while and placed a few inspiration into this woman and exhibit her she is distinctive. A textual content message says "Ýou are valued at 10 seconds of my lifestyles." A romantic gesture says "you're valued at the week I spent making plans this and all of my guts I placed at the line for you and also are valued at how repeatedly I practiced this within the reflect." What could you desire to be valued at right here? Girls like attempt. So drop the cellphone mobile and installed a few attempt. Also maintain in brain that she might not be intrested in you as a boyfriend however you as a pal. Telling her every time any one talks in the back of her again is simply going to harm emotions and intent drama. It may not create intrest. It could also be time to take delivery of that you're going to best be a pal and that is all. And if you happen to cannot take delivery of that then you definitely would desire to supply her house so you'll bear in mind if you happen to could make a well pal and if being a pal is adequate for you. I wish I helped shed a few gentle at the internal workings of the way a woman thinks
2016-09-01 06:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you really know about her? One of my friends girlfriends got a box and put little notes in it of her favorite things. You could do something like that were you put little sayings on a piece of paper and have multiple sayings about what makes you think about her. For example: The color of her eyes might be blue so you could say every time I see the sky it makes me think of you with your big blue eyes. Have tons of these pieces of paper in a box with different things and then give it to her and make her read it. Tell her or write her a note saying it is driving you crazy not having her and knowing that another guy could get her.
2006-11-03 08:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ain't going to happen dude...
First, you have some holes in your boundary to fix. Work on that first. But if you really want her back then follow my advice...
DATE OTHER GIRLS ASAP...and the sooner the better. This may not sound right to you but trust me. Girls are attracted to guys who date other girls. There's a reason for this but can't explain in here.
Just DO IT!
And ignore her. She might come back, great, if she deosn't who cares!?!?! you're dating other girsl anyway!
2006-11-03 08:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her! I'm here!! lol
2006-11-03 08:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋