does anybody knoww how I can beat this?
2006-11-03 07:30:51 · 10 answers · asked by Mami 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I'm always thinking in my head oh god llok away
2006-11-06 02:59:51 · update #1
I'm always thinking in my head oh god look away.
2006-11-06 03:00:10 · update #2
The best thing to beat a fear is to stand up to it.
Take someone you trust......have a staring contest and tell each other how you feel as you do it. It is a very BIG intinidation factor that works in this world.
The fact is everyone has an insecurity and looking directly into someone elses eyes until the other gives up is a dominance roll.
You could also try looking in between their eyes on the bridge of their nose, or their eyebrows.....to the other person can't tell the difference.
2006-11-03 07:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Keanu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and kind when you are talking to someone, that is what is important. If you can't look them in the eye then don't. It's not a requirement and definitely not one of the world's big issues (or probably even yours).
2006-11-03 15:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i feel like that often they have to gain all my trust before i even think of looking at them, and often they think i am lying about something because i can not keep eye contact. It does take time to keep eye contact but don't worry if you cant its not that important.
2006-11-03 15:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tiamat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at an area close to the eyes and move your focus around. Don't look in one spot for too long.
2006-11-03 15:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that when I was having no confidence in myself. Just remind yourself that when you don't look at people especially when you are tlaking to him/her, that's impolite. Think the other way, they might be scared if you look at them thinking that you could read their souls as well? Practice makes perfect. Good luck
2006-11-03 15:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by 8wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a confidence issue. Find someone you know, explain to them your situation, and practice talking to them while looking them in the eye.
2006-11-03 17:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by drkstr1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You STARE first,, beat them at their own game. Suck the soul out before they do.. lock beams, and keep focusing, concentrate harder, think of rainbows, and bunny wabbits, and puppies, and babies, and all that's good left in the world.. FIGHT IT!
2006-11-03 16:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Manatee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are talking to them they migh think you are lying to them becaus eyou are not talking to there face
2006-11-03 15:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by lilmermaid316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so don't look them in the eye.
2006-11-03 15:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you hiding....
2006-11-03 15:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by million$moufpiece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋