Well at first i had no job and no money and all my friends wanted me to go places with them so i use to ask my mom for money now that I got a job and money when i ask people to go places they always broke and ask me to pay thier way. and when u do stuff in school i always be the one buying the materials and then when i say i dont have money to spend like that they get mad and call me cheap. HOw should i respond to that??
2006-11-03 07:30:08 · 13 answers · asked by cutie1017 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell them what you told us--it's not fair that you are put to an inconsiderate standard. Explain to them your side.
I understand where you are coming from, too. My husband was out of work, and we decided to stop going out every Sunday after church with his family. We told them and they were okay with it, but it took 2 months to phase it out. They wouldn't go places with less than $40 a meal! THEN his sister made him rent a $100 tux for her wedding, even though we were broke!
Now that he had a job and we have money, they want us to pay for them and go out all the time. ARGH!
2006-11-03 07:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam not saying let those people go completly but iam saying try to hang out with some one who does not mind going half on what ever you decide to do.
2006-11-03 15:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real friend wouldn't make you feel that way. I wouldn't give my money away. Your not cheep your smart. Try this-when you pay for something make sure when your giving the money away you ask that they pay you back.
2006-11-03 15:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by AJK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them moochers and begin to list the many things that you have paid for....then find friends with jobs.
2006-11-03 15:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by mahree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are getting to the stage you are going to have to make new friends i.e. friends who are in the same tax bracket as yourself. you will find you can do more things and will know your limits when you have friends in the same boat with you.
2006-11-03 15:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Spare Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Fiona!
2006-11-03 16:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends, with jobs.
2006-11-03 15:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Neal J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friends that the bank is permanently closed. Friends like that you don't need.
2006-11-03 15:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over. Wait for people to ask you go out.
2006-11-03 15:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell them to clean your room and you will take them out. you work for your money so they can work for it too. if you dont want to tell them that take em out and make them watch you have fun while they sit there and do nothing.
2006-11-03 15:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋