Met someone with a few problems.. Helped him out and been helping him out for a little over a month. We have gotten into a few arguements. When He knows I am mad he gets all sappy and going all "I need you, love you, want you, miss you" then when I forgive him he gets all no that is ok you can go if you want.. Then when I tell him fine he gets all mad and the whole thing starts again.. My question is why is he playing this stupid little game?
2006-11-03 07:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also girls how would you handle a guy like this?
2006-11-03 07:29:56 · update #1
Okay, this guy has got issues! Girl you can do better. He is wanting someone to show that they need him and want him. He should be making you feel like he wants you not him getting all the attention. He is very high maintance. Find a guy that you have fun with, not one that you have to worry about what you say or do, that is more like a job. Good luck!
2006-11-03 07:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well im not a female so im going to give you some male insight. The reason he is playing little games with you, and trust they are games is because you are allowing it to happen. He knows that your going to forgive him and the circle will continue. What my advise to you would be, is to NOT forgive him so quick and easly. Let him sweat a little so he knows what he did was wrong. Now this does 2 things.
1. It shows that you mean business and your not playing any games.
2. He sees that you are serious and he will watch it from now on or risk losing a good girl.
hope this helps.
2006-11-03 15:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that he may just b using u to say to his friends that he has a gf. cuz when u r mad at him or n a arguement if he says that stuff he is probably just desperate to have a gf so he tries to make it all better by saying that stuff. ya no? i definitely would not b w/ a guy like that. sry hope things get better! =)
2006-11-03 15:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Control is the goal and manipulation of your emotions is how he achieves it. Been there, done that, dumped them...the game sometimes turns violent when they are on a quest for control so be careful.
2006-11-03 15:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by She-ra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could be wrong but he may be playing this game because he likes the things that you do for him. If you are tired of this walk away from him.
2006-11-03 15:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he likes this game and for him you are only a toy that always makes him happy, so get rid of him, you deserve more then a man who is playing with your feelings
2006-11-03 15:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by chiorean m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so supportive - he is taking you and his ability to manipulate you for granted.
Follow through and stay mad - solve the problem and dont sweep it under the carpet.
2006-11-03 15:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's just using you to help him through his problems. He's playing mind games. Play them back and give him what he deserves.
2006-11-03 15:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is how men are. When my husband does something and I try and talk to him he says I love you and I am sorry I wont do it again. Yet he does it over and over again.
2006-11-03 15:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Daigsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to see if you would get hurt, could be feeling in love or doesn't really care but needs your help
2006-11-03 15:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋