Can anyone tell me why he's so off kilter? He used to complain that we weren't active enough. It's a total pattern that I CAN'T take. How do I give my body and soul and he just rejects me? It's so new.
2006-11-03 07:04:01 · 34 answers · asked by christancat2000 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
He got what he wanted (your body) and until the need builds up again he dosen't want you around. He is using you. Leave him and keep your knees together in future.
2006-11-06 11:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been a conquest. Now the jerk has control and knows it. he is also insecure, and not a real man. However many women will continually go back for more of the abuse. Time after time they are blinded by "love" and how much their boyfriend or husband is really a good person.
So the answer is, if you CAN"T take it. Leave it. There are plenty of men out there that won't treat you that way.
2006-11-03 07:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by drkstr1973 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it is not the army, it must be his previous adolescents. He thinks this proper, yet you ought to no longer be the subject of his abuse. Get him counseling to deal along with his ingesting abuse and anger administration. i've got faith that ingesting is effective until it inflicting a topic. If it reasons a topic, then that's a topic. talk on your boyfriend, end making excuses and enable him comprehend which you're there to help him manage it. I somewhat have been around taverns the final public of my youthful existence, from my grandmother possessing one to my mom. you're precise once you're saying that 'different than that he's the nicest guy interior the international'. maximum drinkers are as happy pass fortunate as they are able to be until they attain that categorical minimize and then that's a night and day character. be careful please!
2016-12-28 11:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manic depressives are like that, My 1st g/f was totally great in bed but man she was mean in public. Your best bet is to get out and never look back.
make sure you check for this in the future. great sex can be a part of a great relationship or it can be a tool to an abusive person. Take care
2006-11-03 07:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Robert E 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The one word you didnt include in your question is the word "abuse", which is exactly what this is.
Abuse can be verbal, mental, physical or sexual. Either way, it is all abuse. Try being honest with your bf about what his actions are doing to you emotionally and mentally and he may be interested in trying to work through them with you with a professional. If not, dump his butt and good riddance!
2006-11-03 07:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is a pattern, leave him for your own well-being. He may have psychological issues you are unequipped to deal with or resolve. If you stay in the relationship you give him permission to do this and it may escalate to physical violence. Leave him today and consider yourself lucky.
2006-11-03 07:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by TweetyBird 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are experiencing this and guessing you must really like him to put up with it. Sex for women is usually a lot more meaningful and personal and it sounds as if he is not showing to the respect and care you deserve. My advice would be to talk to him, maybe go and seek help toether there are many sex therapist around or if you feel ready or strong enough leave him, as it sounds af if you could do much better
2006-11-03 07:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Britchick 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Lookaherenow. That dude is either sexin sum1 else down or he's showing you the true him after he gets what he wants.
My opinion: Let him go now so later won't be so hard to do!!!
2006-11-03 07:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by LoLo B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You bf has mental issues: After he has sex with you, he feels cheap, so he treats you like a whore (plain & simple).
Dump the guy.
2006-11-03 07:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS MAN FRIEND OF YOURS JUST GOT A NEW GIFT WITHOUT EVEN PAYING FOR IT. WHEN YOU CHOSE TO HAVE SEX BEFORE YOU MARRIED HIM HE GOT SOMETHING FREE OUT OF YOU AND NOW IT SEEMS THAT MAYBE HE GOT WHAT HE WAS SET OUT FOR AND BEING THAT HE REACHED HIS GOAL THERE'S NO MORE NEED TO BE NICE AND COMFORTING. JUST LIKE A BABY OR KID WHO WANTS SOMETHING AND THEY TRY TO BE NICE TO THEIR PARENTS TO GET. SORRY TO SAY BUT YOU HAVE JUST BEEN PLAYED IT MAY SOUND HORRIBLE OR MEAN BUT IT IS THE TRUTH SO I GUESS THE CLICHE IS REAL --THE TRUTH HURTS!!--
2006-11-03 07:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by brwnladi 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋