wud you accept it if ya mate is not a virgin?
2006-11-03 07:02:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WOULD IF I HAD ALREADY KNOWN BEFORE SHE BECAME MY MATE....ALSO I WOULD ACCEPT IF SHE HAS NOT TOLD ME OTHERWISE...AND THE TRUTH COMES FROM HER ONLY I MEAN....
2006-11-06 19:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julie!
good question! frankly, it doesn't matter to me. when we're, we all do things that are stupid, because we think we're smart and we know everything. but life is about living, and if i don't experience something, i may never get the chance again.
i smoked when i was school and college, and i used to drink booze like a fish drinks water! today, i've given up smoking, and i've reduced my drinking to just 2 glasses a week. and that's because of personal experience.
similarly, i had sex when i was just in school. i did it bcoz everyone else was doing it and i thought it was the "cool thing" to do.
but now i know better.
similarly, my partner would've made kistakes when she was younger. but if she's gonna be honest with me after marriage, and change her life, that's good enough.
all relationships have to work on trust, and if we don't trust each other, it won't work out. so my partners virginity or past life does not matter to me. i'm only interested in who she is today, and now.
hope this helped, julie...
enjoy!
2006-11-04 11:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by bangaloresizzler 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In this current time, it is almost impossible to believe your mate will be a virgin. So you almost have to accept it.
2006-11-03 15:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by jacobm_24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends more about what kind of person the girl is, i dont see how not being a virgin woul make a girl more or less attractive, were not living in the stone age
2006-11-03 18:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Acceptance for what? Marriage, friendship, love, sex?
I dont have problem in any, except for sex. I will just want to know if the person is HIV infected or not.
2006-11-04 05:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what can one do? But if there are two choices with everything same except virginity, everybody chooses a virgin
2006-11-03 17:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by abcdefg 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
of course ! I could not have sex with her anyway - in fact the ladies who take care of me have sex in our house - they think I am the baby!
In to days world it would be very hard to find a virgin any way!
Happy humping !!!!
2006-11-03 15:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YEs i agree and accept
2006-11-03 23:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can connect with your mate on levels other than sex, then it shouldn't matter if they are a virgin or not.
2006-11-03 15:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by cuteazndude84 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
l didn't marry her for just for sex and what if wasn't a virgin l Hope it doesn't matter
2006-11-03 15:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by thomas a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋