ive been married for abou two months and i love my wife and im very attrected to her. but when we have sex i just cant seem to climax. usally after an hour or so we both give up and go to sleep. she thinks that im no longer attracted to her. but im more attracted to her vthen i could ever possibly explain.
2006-11-03 06:47:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have so much on the brain that is what it is, you are overwelhming yourself with her attraction. you can find answers of this on yahoo. Don't give it, it has something to do with your nerves, you must be nervous for some reason. seems also so that you are newlyweds, haven't you had sex before with her or no??
2006-11-03 06:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, aww you sound so sweet :) But I don't know, usually it's NOT the guy who has any sort of problem with this. If you're using a stupid thing (aka condom) that could be affecting it. Kind of takes away from your physical feeling hindering your "climax". If you don't use one of those, it could be some sort of medical thing and you should ask a doc. If you DO use those, try without and I bet something will happen :)
2006-11-03 14:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth a trip to the doctor just to make sure there isn't anything physically wrong with you.
In the meantime I hope your wife will come to understand that this bothers you probably MORE than it does her. You're both in this together and hopefully for life... whatever you need to do to straighten this out you should both be involved.
Good luck to both of you, and please do get checked!
2006-11-03 14:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by MissJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see your family doctor and explain what is happening to him. He will probably have a medical explanation and a simple solution for this problem.
2006-11-03 14:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
repetetive sexual practices. try something new or kinky.
or go see a doctor to make sure you are not suffering from some kind of malady.
high blood pressure, diabetes and stress I heard can cause this too.
2006-11-03 14:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a professional or something, probably some minor psychological thing or whatever.
2006-11-03 14:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay.
You're probably missing the fine art of warming up your partner and her you. It's just something that needs to be done. Try doing things other then intercourse.
2006-11-03 14:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to your doctor. Maybe there is a medical reason causing this problem.
2006-11-03 14:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit your primary dr. and possibly a urologist. When you masterbate do you climax that way.
2006-11-03 14:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to consult a doctor...
2006-11-03 14:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋