We are getting married next month. For me is going to be first time sex. And since we are on long distance, I am not going to see him before our wedding. Any seggestions for first time.
2006-11-03 06:44:38 · 15 answers · asked by Fantasy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to me why a 25 year old is marrying a 40 year old from a long distance relationship? On the surface this looks like a recipe for divorce. Why is a 40 yr old looking for a 25 yr old except as a trophy wife? Whose making the decisions about this marriage ? Where are your parents in this thing? My advice? Forget the first night and make a run for it, this looks like disaster coming to me.
2006-11-03 06:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since it is your first time I would take it slow, and try to relax- save the kinky and wild stuff for another night. Don't expect much- my first time, due to the fact that I was so tight, he was done in about 5 minutes (and felt real bad) but the next night it was a lot better and he was able to control himself a little more.
Congrats on your upcoming marriage and good luck!
2006-11-03 14:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE!!! First, 40 is not old enough to be a 25 year old's father. That's only 15 years...do the math! These days it is possible, but get a clue really.
Second, why will this be the first meeting? Is this for a green card? or because he wants to be your "daddy?"
Things that make you go ummm...
2006-11-03 14:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by enGAGEd!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to get blood tested and all the that medical stuff! If you don't really "know" him because of your long distance relationship, you need to play it safe. Use condoms or whatever you prefer. Make sure to talk to him about this condition of your terms...you don't know where or what he's been doing wherever he's from. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Take care of business and if he doesn't understand your views and concerns, then it's not worth the STD's! Good luck...
2006-11-03 14:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a 15 year age difference isn't that much so do whatever floats your boat. I'm not going to judge you cuz it's not right.
I'm 22, and I personally wouldn't go out wth a 37 year old but if he was a good man and very mature with good morals, goals; heck why not?!
2006-11-03 15:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be very calm and relaxed. make sure there's lots of foreplay to start out with before the actual sex so that you've eased yourself into it. most importantly is to just have fun! sex is supposed to be fun so don't worry so much about everything. the guy is probably counting himself lucky to have such a young wife so i'm sure he'll be happy with it no matter what! Have fun!
2006-11-03 14:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep your expectations low because it is your first time. Relax and try to enjoy it. Whatever happens, remember that it gets better the more times you do it.
2006-11-03 14:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just relax. im guessing he knows youre a virgin, so just tell him to go slow and everything will be alright. the first time isnt supposed to be that great anyway, and youll have alot more other times to practice on the honeymoon;)
2006-11-03 14:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go slow and easy. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. It won't be enjoyable unless you are both in agreement with everything.
2006-11-03 14:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just let him lead the way. It may comftrable to learn the ropes from him. Best of luck.
2006-11-03 14:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by MIA 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋