My dad is in the military and he is often away. My mom is out of the picture. I have three older brothers (age 23, 20, and 19). I live with them most of the time.
When I get in trouble, should they be allowed to spank me? They don't do it without reason, but they do it on my bare backside and they usually use a belt. I am thirteen, and I just wanted to know what some older people thought.
2006-11-03 06:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by Nora 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I talked to my brother annd asked if he could just spank me with my clothes on. He agreed, but, i mean, still. They are my brothers!
2006-11-03 06:46:12 · update #1
On your bare butt? NO! that's a form of sexual abuse!
Call your local child and family services.
Speak to your Dad about this, this just isn't right.
2006-11-03 06:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jas 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋
This is a very serious problem, you are not a little child you are an adolescent and have a right to tell them that you are uncomfortable or just don't like being spanked especially on you bare bottom! Let your dad know first and then if you feel you still need someone else to speak to reach out to a teacher or mentor whoever you look up to...It could just be ignorance on your brothers; part or it could be a lot more serious please communicate with someone it never hurts!!!
2006-11-03 06:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Chas77 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Eww, I'd have a fit. bare backside your 13? Thats alittle old doncha think? What if Aunt Flo is visiting? What the heck are you doing so bad that you need to be spanked on the bare butt?
2006-11-03 06:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by PegBundyWannabe 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I would think 13 is too old to spank. I have a 14 year old and I pop him here and there or punch him on the arm but thats about it. I think its okay for them to pop you but spankings are out.
2006-11-03 06:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am 10 years older than my brother, I used to spank him when he was little, I had my parents permission to do it.
2006-11-04 01:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I say 13 is to old to be spanked, expecialy on your bare bottom.
2006-11-03 06:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by osu_fanz 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
my brother is 12 years older than me and he never spanked me. so i say no....but if your parents allow it i don't know what to tell you.
2006-11-03 09:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thats very perve like behavior. I'd demand that they knock it off, your to old to be spanked bare a-s-s-ed.
2006-11-03 06:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
your brothers sound not spank you
2006-11-03 08:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by daisynfamily 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
you learn more by the bare bottoms......
respect....... discipline, and growing up----
it will hurt a little, but eventually you'll get the
message.......... NO HARM IN THAT!!!!!!!
2006-11-03 14:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋