every website i go on to try and communicate with girls, im getting no replies or getting snubbed, i no im dealing with ver low moods and spinning thoughts right now, and im not goin out anywhere because of high levels of anxiety, plus im wanting to move out my rough area, i have so many issues going on for me right now. but i crave female attention i dont no why is it because im weak?? plus if i get violation emails from yahoo answers does it mean my account will get disabled?
2006-11-03 05:58:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not ignoring u.or snubbing!
2006-11-03 06:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by dee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow your sure on a downward spiral, I'm suggesting that as I can see you understand your on the 'low moods and spinning thoughts' right now and you wonder why you haven't had any success in communication? Part of it might be, that with the mood you are in you could actually unintentionally spark these buzzes outwards and with what you feel you will only attract? Which is 'lonely and ignored' Or while your focus on your low moods you could actually be blind to see the better of people out there? I like the saying 'You only attract people like how you are inside' Also there are people out there it's just that you have to be happy with yourself to build the confident up to be able to communicate. Why you seek females maybe because you seek sensitivity advice, understanding and you need to know its 'ok'. Your main issue could be your anxiety. To overcome it will help you overcome a lot of obstacles you face in life, take one step at a time. Hope that helped!
2006-11-03 14:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first work on your own issues before you bring a girl into your life. Because we dont want to start out in a bad situtation. Then once you get your personal issue figured out, Then go out to a club or some party and meet people. Online dating really isnt a sure thing. And girls can be bitches. You could even try going to the mall, or grocery shopping. Meet a girl when your working. We all love a man who has a job. But really just work on your own happiness right now then work up to having someone else in your life
2006-11-03 14:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's both easy and hard to look for love on the net. It's easy in the way that you can enter chat rooms with a couple of clicks and start talking to strangers without revealing any sides of you that you may feel less charming. It's all an act I think.
It's hard because you, most likely, will not have that real connection, security, and intimacy that you will have with someone if you met them in a public setting. Going out with someone on the net might still leave you feeling lonely. I say work on yourself first. Try enjoy being single. Hey, If you can't even hang out with yourself, why do you think someone else is going to want to?
2006-11-03 14:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea about the last question you posted...
Why are you so deperate to have a girlfriend? (I can asked that because I was once in your shoes) Deal with your issues first.
Figure out why you are feeling sorry for yourself all the time & change it! There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. Do not look for a girl to come and save you. Save yourself first, then the next thing you know, you'll look at this post and think, man I'm glad I'm not that person anymore...
2006-11-03 14:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont feel bad, i didnt get any replies either for the longest time, either people get too busy, or that cyber stuff gets people lost in the internet, i'm sorry you live in a rough part of town i know that can be dificult. when you feel anxious just take deep breathes and think about getting out of there, and the "new" life and what you can do to make that happen, that will cheer you up, and the girl issue, we are weird, and we will come around in time. good luck, i hope everything works out for you!!
2006-11-03 14:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start over with the online dating thing and lighten up. Don't talk about your issues and moods - try talking about your goals or your favorite food/book/band/song/restaurant/artist/dancer - whatever and for goodness sakes be positive. In the meantime work on improving yourself - do all your laundry, clean your place, get a haircut and so on. You are experiencing a temporary down and it's your responsibility pick yourself back up. Good luck.
2006-11-03 14:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Susan G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to want the attention of the opposite sex. We all need love and attention, it is no different that when we were kids. Go do something you enjoy and maybe you will find someone there, then you can start with a common ground. Good luck to you.
2006-11-03 14:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by poppyspock 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So days totally f in rock, filled with amazment. Some days suck completely. Keep going, nothing last forever, even the good times
2006-11-03 14:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by M2J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just trying to hard and it's getting annoying to others. Just chill out for a bit and then see what happens or you can find something esle to fill your time.
2006-11-03 14:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not weak just because you feel lonely and ignored. Hope you start to feel better real soon.
2006-11-03 14:11:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋