so here's the thing...i'm in love with this guy that hasn't got much to offer me but when we're together it's amazing and i feel that we can go through anything as long as we're together...but, when the reality kicks in i realise we can never make it :(((((
on the other hand there's this guy that loves me and with whom i could have a carefree life, but i just can't fall in love with him.
i don't know what to do...once i was told that i should choose the one that could make my life easier and not the one that can complicate it, b/c we all know that when real feelings are involved we can easily get hurt...
so, now what?
2006-11-03 05:58:20 · 17 answers · asked by ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is moer important than money and material things..... what good does it do, to have a bunch of stuff and no love.
Why settle for material things, when you could have the love of your life
2006-11-03 06:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a choose between 2 guys, You can't stay with the one, who loves you, and can give you material things, because if your not in love with him you never will be,a "carefree" life isn't fun if it's not the right person. Besides if you let him go, he will have a chance ti find someone WHO really loves him, don't you think he deserves that? What a bout the other guy, the one you think you love? What makes you think the 2 of you could never make it? You say you feel like the 2 of you could make it through anything, whats stopping you? If you know a real reason, why you couldn't make, then make a break, before it gets deeper, time won't make any breakup any easier, actually only more pain-full. Could it be that neither of these men "is the right one"?
2006-11-03 06:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about marrying one of these guys I would say go with the secure one. Or at least think about all the factors that will go into your future. Eventually those feelings of being completely happy with the broke guy no matter what, will diminish and you will need something else to keep your relationship going smoothly. Marriage is tough and not having any funds makes it even harder. If you're like 18 and just having fun then totally stay with the guy that makes you crazy. But remember, he won't make you crazy forever!
2006-11-03 06:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by kelleywheel7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gal, just my personal opinion, hope u dun mind if i had unintentionally say anything that is not very nice. Very first of all are you a kind of woman who can be hungry with just love. If you re, pls go ahead and follow yr heart. If not pls dun hurt yrself and the poor guy. And if u need bread, I personally think both is not suitable. If you re lonely, look for programs. dancing, friends outings, movies etc. guess u wont die without guys thou Im.
All the best
2006-11-03 06:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by vic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do rely on a guy to take care of you. Get an education and a good job. Then you can be with whoever you want for whatever reason. To give up love so you don't have to work (or as hard) is pathetic.
2006-11-03 06:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what is in your heart!!
You can't just ask someone what to do expecting you right answer.
This is a life decision.
If you love this guy who has nothing, but he makes you happy that's what matters.
If you go with this guy whom is rich but you dont love him could you see yourself in ten years with this guy who you don't love but have to wake up next to every day. What if you absolutly cant stand the rich guy.
I would go for the man you love.
Only if that's in your heart.
2006-11-03 06:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do think you and the first guy could never make it? Is is a money thing? Because if that's all it is, don't let it stop you. True love is way too valuable to put a pricetag on!
Love on, be happy!
2006-11-03 06:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How lengthy do you elect as a lot as now the guy? Even through your man or woman description, you already know the first one has a better effective skill for a destiny. the 2d you could nonetheless be exciting as a lot as now yet gained't very last lengthy! elect what you elect out of your next boyfriend and decide hence!
2016-10-16 07:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by doti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would honesty just give yourself time dont go out with either one of them, your knight will be along sometime and when he is then you will know and wont have to ask anyone about it. Just wait dont sound like either of them are for you.
2006-11-03 06:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick none.
Like the others said give yourself a time out and wait a while
2006-11-03 06:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋