Hi, yes i'm talking about martin again. I really don't know why i'm here. Today he said he finds it annoying when i ask if i can have a chewing gum. Isn't nice to be polite. I've got a cold, not working as jobs are scarce in nursing, but will be doing agency soon. I do find it hard to have a laugh with himk, because i don't know how he will react. He even looks at me funny when i'm speaking, constantly looking for things to get rid. I'd wish he would understnad me when i say i'm depressed!
2006-11-03 05:08:32 · 3 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People are not mind readers and sometimes people say something and mean something else. Instead of expecting Martin to understand every little thing about you without explaination, try to explain to him what you mean.
And who cares how he looks at you, at least he's looking at you!
2006-11-03 17:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the thing is men don't like hearing about things like depression. They like girls who are happy and confident. So, I think what you should do is to change your attitude. Don't be a pathetic begger or whiner. Be proud of who you are and let it show in you body language. Oh, and also don't speak too much, okay. Best to let him talk about himself. Men like it. So, from now on no whining about how sad you feel. If it had not touched his heart by now, it never will. See how it goes if you try a different approach, will you. An if it doesn't work I'm afraid you'll have to move on. I wish you luck.
2006-11-03 21:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by ina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy question DUMP HIM
2006-11-05 10:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by plumbob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋