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Question

We have been married for 19 yrs. Not all has been rosy, I spent alot of time in military. She has been lying quiet a bit lately and talks to me and the kids harshly. Three months age she was found on the side of the house with a 17 yr old guy. She also has been lying about smoking( you Know) She says to me "we are gettin old" alot. She rejects my advances, and is not real friendly to be around, until young folks are around then she is smilie and friendly. How do I accept rejection from her and continue our marriage with all the lies. She is a very attractive lady, by the way.

Answer 1

She's needing to feel loved and attractive to others. poor self esteem?