why do we fall in love with someone even though it isn't the best for us? we love them even though we know life is going to be hard being with them but we can't be without them. Why is that?
2006-11-03 04:08:47 · 88 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about it……
Everything happens for a reason……
It’s hard to find someone you truly love……
Let alone to find someone who truly loves you……
If a movie had a sad ending……
Would you watch it?
I don’t think so……
So when the chance comes……
Don’t ever let it go……
Because you may never get it back……
You will fight with your best friend……
In life you will realise that the one person……
That you thought would never let you down, probably will……
You will see time pass by so fast……
So live life like it was your last day to live……
Because you never know, it could be your last……
Did you know that every minute you spend upset……
Is a minute you’ll never get back……
Find someone that calls you beautiful, instead of hot……
Someone who isn’t afraid to hold your hand in front of his friends……
Someone who will call you just to say “hi”……
Someone who stays up at night to watch you sleep……
Someone who looks at you in the morning and says you’re still beautiful……
Someone who says “baby, you’re beautiful” and really means it……
Someone who will treat you with respect……
Someone that will call you back if you hang up on them……
And kisses your forehead……
Someone who’s got all the time in the world for you……
And is constantly reminding you of how much they care for you……
And how lucky they are to have you……
Love is the key……
Which opens the gates of happiness……
The hardest thing you’ll ever do……
Is watch the one you love……
Love someone else……
So if you don’t want that to happen……
Then never let that person go……
Life is like a pen……
You can cross things out, but you can never erase them……
No matter what the memories, you will remember them forever……
Life is too short……
So cherish every moment of it……
And never let that person go……
Take as many pictures as possible……
With love and patience, nothing is impossible……
So love without fear……
Trust without questioning……
Accept with things change……
The best thing in life is love……
You should always love like you have never been hurt……
Boys come and go……
But the true guy will last forever……
Treasure the memories you shared together……
Before it’s a little too late……
The greatest challenge in life……
Is to find someone……
Who knows your flaws, differences and weaknesses……
And yet, still finds the best in you……
You can’t fight fate, what happens……
Just happens……
Find someone who will place his head on your heart……
And whisper, “this is my new favourite song”
that explains real love, so if that's what you feel, then it's love, but if it's not, its obsession
tnt_bbe x0x
2006-11-03 05:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by tnt_bbe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Where Love Comes From
2017-01-13 20:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love is superficial. I think back in the olden days men did not like to share their women so they decided to come up with something to claim ownership hence the marriage license. Anyway, when you are with someone for a long period of time or having been with people back to back you become insecure and don't believe you can do things on your own. It becomes a comfortable familiar situation even though it is not the best for you. I am a very independant 23 year old woman single mom and I have been the one to break off all of my relationships being in "love" one time. I am always watching my own back because I know for a fact that in the long run I am the only person that is capable of doing that. I suggest that you should do that yourself.
If you cant love yourself enough to make sure your treated the right way why do you think you can love someone else the right way. Love yourself first then you'll know when you come across a person that compliments you.
2006-11-03 06:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by jp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well most of the time people fall in love without knowing that it won't be the best for them. This case that you do know that its not good is basically the same thing, as your feelings just run over your reasoning. But atleast you seem to have the sense to think things through a bit, which is good.
People are desperate in a way. I mean you're supposed to pair up, supposed to start a family and move together, get married, get kids and so on in today's society. Most people want to plan these things, like "I'll get married when I'm 25" etc, but you really can't plan stuff like this. It just happens, and if you do try, you'll end up making all the wrong decisions.
But yes, the answer to your question is mainly desperation. I'll never feel like this, I'll never find another person that seems to love and care for me even this much as this person does. And you want to believe this is it. You want to find that someone, even though this guy here most likely isnt that someone. So just adjust your perspective, see things through, look back in your life, you'll see you'll do just fine. No need to rush things, no need to make bad decisions. Listen to reason, but don't forget your feelings in the process.
2006-11-04 01:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bastard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love comes from our hearts desire.Even though in our head we know it may or may not be the best choice for us,but life is hard and you take the good with the bad.So it's wether or not we can withstand all the bad things that comes with relationships.
For I belive It's not what anyone says or does to you it's what you will take.To be with someone for a long period of time means that you accept them just as they are and to change them is fault on your part.Life with love is very hard somtimes and you can often forget why you fell in love in the first place.But if you take a step back and look at what you have with that person then it doesen't matter how many fights you have been in only that you make up after it's over.
2006-11-03 05:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by akira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! there are alot of good answers to this question. WOW!
It's fun to be loved and also to love someone else and be there for them through the thick and the thin but it's now fun when you have done so much for oine and then all of a sudden the break-up comes out of no-where. Then that when you really feel the pain. Even when you are the nice guy in the relationship, it just sucks to be hurt and it's very tough to move
Here is some advice: Go out and read or get the book called "Who moved my Cheese? by Spencer Johnson M.D.
It's a great book that talks about relationships and how to move on.
2006-11-03 06:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is all there is.
Its also a convenient excuse for laziness, stupidity, horniness, or just being human. The feeling of love is also driven by reproduction needs which are set up on a chemical level within the body. You are a woman right. Some women are attracted to two types the "bad boy" type who is a survivor because she wants her children to be survivors too. And the Home body who will stay with her forever. This can be disastrous, because your subconscious will lead you to take the bad boys genes home to be taken care of by the home body.
Do you ever wonder why all ladies like dirty dancing its because the leading role guy is the perfect mix if both types, "bad boy who will fight for her but who is also sensitive and loves to dance". Us men also have a splintered personality the things we want don't always fit. The erotic for example (also an expression of love) is sometimes mysterious and temporary, and in its very nature
and cannot be lasting.
The media also tells us how to love, depending on what will sell more products.
Its also the most beautiful thing in life.
BigLove
2006-11-03 05:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by JahMekYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes from your brain, even though you feel it in your heart.
Who you love? It has a lot to do with your life's expeiences. Low-self esteem can cause you to stay with someone who is not the best for you. Or he might remind you of a father or some male figure who didn't give you the love/ attention that you needed at the time. You might just be too forgiving, and haven't been hurt enough to have learned life's hard lessons.
Love comes from Within. Don't ever let the well run dry; even if the water gets polluted! Eventually, it'll run clear and pure again.
:^)
2006-11-03 05:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what matters in life is what can happen and not what is supposed to happen. Falling in love with someone you cant have due to circumstance clearly shows that no matter what, it cannot work. I think it is just part of life when you cant have everything that you want.
Why do we fall in love? Well, that is just the same as why do we want the chocolate cake instead of the vanilla cake? We love because of particular things that appeal to us. What appeals to us is not necessary what is best for us and hence, if we want to make the most of our lives, it is often better to accept reality than to fight battles you couldnt ever possibly win. And no, love doesnt always conquer all....
2006-11-03 05:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow-- Ive had two husbands and a few(to say the least) boyfriends, and I can honestly say that the man I am with now is truly the love of my life.....the others are what you described... not a good thing and after soul searching i have found that I had a NEED to "fix" them and their problems. It wasn't LOVE- love comes from a deeper place, where the mental, physical and emotional all connect.... what you are talking about is not coming from a positive place.... thats the only advise i can give.
2006-11-03 04:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by witchway 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋