There is a guy I met while in a training session. We work for the same company but in different cities about 200 miles away. We've been talking on IM for months.This wknd I was planning a Christmas shopping trip. It was cancelled 2 days ago...last night he was online and we talked...I told him I had planned a shopping trip to his city for this weekend, but it had been cancelled. He said, well if you would 've came down you could've stopped in work Saturday evening and hangout. I asked him if I would've done that, would he have wanted to go and get a beer after he got off. He said Yeah, that'd be good. Or you could come to my house and we could hang out and catch up. He's a good person, I'd feel 100% comfortable doing this. I said well the next time, I'll just surprise you and pop in at work..he said that'd be good. He's the boss at work, so it'd be fine. Well, now the trip is back on-should I just pop in and surprise him like I said? I would call him from the parkinglot. thanks
2006-11-03 03:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by Doogie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For what its worth, yes I like this guy and I think he likes me too...we've always been very flirtatious towards one another, from the time we met at the training session in the spring.
2006-11-03 03:44:25 · update #1
Sounds great! Should go for it my friend...Nothing like spending some time with someone you like....whatever be the outcome...just take it from there! But please dont doubt on the first step..give each other the chance to know better! Both of you sound so sweet and there is already something in the air!!! Good luck my friend....life is a one time ride...roller coaster or not, it's still fun..enjoy the ride as it lasts! Good luck!
2006-11-03 03:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by aleandan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the trip is back on and tell him you would like to stop by and see him. You don't want to show up and realize that he has other plans. Also if you haven't been around this guy in person or know people who know him well I prolly wouldn't go to his house. Keep it public.
2006-11-03 13:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, check the personal records and make sure he is at single statis. If he is go for it. Guys get a kick out of surprises!
2006-11-03 12:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nanniekc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance. But be careful with the popping in. I would maybe give him a few minutes to get himself together, throw in some gum and comb his hair. :)
2006-11-03 11:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by ELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured nothing gained!! Go for it sister!! You have a shot at a great guy why not takeit!! Throw caution to the wind!! Good Luck!!
2006-11-03 11:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by mptodora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too long of a story...
2 points! Just listen to the others...
2006-11-03 12:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by ka250 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of taking chances especially if your in love. So take a chance and have fun.Good Luck.
2006-11-03 11:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would be awesome but beers and going to his house or your house leads to sex then pregnancy and i dont think it would be good unless you to love each other i dont think you want the responsibility of a child in your life right now hun its very hard work just be careful
2006-11-03 11:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds good, I wish I were the guy
2006-11-03 11:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be exciting and he would really enjoy that if he is what you say he is. yea go out on a thrill and surprise him. have fun
2006-11-03 11:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋