How do you deal with a break up because u're pregnant?

Question

my boyfriend dumped me yesterday because i told him i was pregnant

Answer 1

first off let me say that I am very sorry he has done you this way,try thinking of your break-up this way...you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.There isn't a sure-fire way to mend a broken heart but there are definitely things you can to do to make it feel a bit lighter and ready for new love.first and formost take care of yourself the best way you can because now you have another life depending on you and the choice's you make for the both of you.allow yourself to feel what you need to and take all the time in the world to get over him.For some people it may only take a few weeks to move on and others years. However long it takes, be okay with that. You can't live your life in the past, waiting for a second chance to do things differently. Doing so is only taking you away from experiencing things that could be better. Don't be scared to give love another try.as hard as this is to accept, be thankful that he has done this now instead of later, he might be scared for whatever reason's.The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas,dream and think about what your precious child will be like when they grow up,think about how much love and affection you will give this sweet little baby,think about the first time your child call's you mommy,Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy your life, and the joy's of raiseing your child.Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! with all this being said, I wish you the best of luck.May God be with you from today on out :o)

Answer 2

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Answer 3

My question.........how old are you?? Either way this is not right.
It takes two to tango and you are both responsible.

Sorry to say this is why sex should be left til after marriage.
I get that everyone, myself included, enjoys sex, but this is
why there are so many single moms. Once the guy gets
what he wants he can just walk away. Sure he looks like an a*s
and everyone knows that he is an a*s, but what does he care??
He got his piece and left you with a HUGE responsiblity.

Of course, this doesnt mean that you cant be a GREAT mom.
You ex-boyfriend is a BIG LOSER and he doesnt deserve you or
your baby (should you decide to be a mom).

Answer 4

You do some serious thinking about how you are going to raise this baby or not!
This happens all the time! Some guys do not want babies, but they do not want to use protection either. You should have made that sucker use something!
Now you have a life long decision to make by yourself. Do a lot of Praying and I know that you will do the best for you!

Answer 5

Well that sounds like a typical selfish irresponsible imature punk and sad to say your better off and I hope you and the baby enjoy spending all that child support and maybe you can buy something for your new man who will be willing to take care of your child and you while your ex stands by wishing he wasn't such a jerk off which is what he should of done in the first place instead of wanting to eat the candy but not pay for it

Answer 6

well you know what the first thing that you do is not run to him and cry to him and tell him that you love him. shoew him that you are capable of taking care of that child by yourself(even if you are not) dont let him know that now you dont have him your world is a pause. show him that your life isnt just about him now! if he still talks to you tell him that he wants to be part of the babies life then he can but he will never have a spot in your heart again because he did the worse thing that he couyld ever do! walk out on you when you needed him the most! yes it will be hard but it will be worth it in the long run. just dont cave in things will get better!

Answer 7

Well, that's one of the things you need to discuss before you go to bed. And you need to know he'll be around.

Sometimes this complaint comes from a woman who is deceiving her mate into believeing she is on the pill or some other contaceptive. So when he plants his seed and she becomes pregnant, she is surprised and hurt that he doesn't stay around.

Answer 8

just try to put your focus on yourshelf and your unborn child you don't really need to stress your shelf out. im pregnant with my ex child and now he has another girlfriend and im not sitting around crying about the situation because i need to be strong for my shelf and child.

Answer 9

good, he is not the man for you and your baby then. live your life, be strong now that you will become a mother someday, be strong for your baby and yourself, dont waste your time with that kind of man.

Answer 10

Just take one day at a time.