should i tell her boyfriend???

Question

well i got a friend, who's got a boyfriend, but she's also got a friend which she dates only to have sex, well her boyfriend respects her a lot. he wants to have sex with her until they're married. they're been together for about 1 year. well everytime she goes out with her friend they have sex, so i dont know what to do.should i tell her boyfriend about this???

Answer 1

If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.

Answer 2

Instead of being double-crossing your friend, although she is wrong, why not advise and talk to your friend about this issue first? Tell her one day she might get found out by her boyfriend and what she is doing now is putting her relationship in jeopardy. Ask her how would she feel if her boyfriend does the same thing to her. If she does not listen, you should stay away from her, cause if she can betray her boyfriend like this, who knows when she will betray you next. Plus the guilt of not telling will keep on burdening you...

Answer 3

No. It's not your place to tell him. I also had a friend once who did this but worse, she was married and had 3 guys on the side. I never said a thing to her poor husband, that is something he will eventually find out on his own. Karma's a ***** so just sit back, relax, and wait for the fur to fly. Don't rush into other people's problems, it's always better that way.

Answer 4

Mind your own business! Of course she's a pig....I'd let her know that flat out in a heartbeat, but it's not your place to discuss that with him.... I'd probably dump her as a friend because it looks like she lacks any moral or ethical judgement, so I'd wonder what she's doing behind my back and probably woudn't trust her as far as I could throw her....

Answer 5

It is not your business so you should not tell him. If you do, it might back fire at you and you risk losing your friend. She could just lie and tell him that you are lying and just being jealous. Try making her tell him instead

Answer 6

i would that's not right for one partner to be so respectful and wait and the other to messing around. Good guys like that turn bad because of girls like that. =}

Answer 7

I would stay clear of this one!! But if you feel you need to do something send an anonymous letter to him. He really does deserve to know she does not share his morals!!

Answer 8

No! You need to stear-clear! Stay out of this. You just need to let him find out by himself and if he does and he comes to you about it, it's better to just act surprise. That's what i'd do.

Answer 9

Well if you are a good friend and her b/f is one of the good guys then he don't deserve it so tell him.

Answer 10

nope this has nothing to do with you stay out of it
i am not trying to sound mean but blunt still
let her burn her own bridges ~¿Ô