He has never seen me naked. During intercourse I wear my skirt and shirt. I am embarassed to be named in front of anyone
2006-11-03 03:36:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
married for a year
2006-11-03 03:42:05 · update #1
Nothing wrong being partially nude in bed while doing the dirty deed. In fact, I enjoy my lady friends in stockings and high heels.
2006-11-03 05:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. BIG 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal? No. Happens. Yes
First realize why you are insecure of you body.
Second dismissed those things that made you fell insecure.
Third you must accept God in your life to help you with the first and second steps.
Pray hard. Not only for your marriage, but for your self. You do not want to pass this behavior on to your children. You are a beautiful woman who is sought after by many and admired by millions. Stand on the word, Any man who be in Christ is a new creature old things pass away.
Abide in Jesus and He will have you testifying to others woman about the same situation He has delivered you from. Later
2006-11-03 06:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by long leggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ma'am, you gotta start being more comfortable around your man, He married you, he loves you for who you are, I'm sure he would love to see you naked. Why can't you be comfortable with youself? I'm sure it's nothing to be ashamed of, just loosen up, all men love naked, and I'm sure your man does too. You need to start enjoying your naked time, but if you are that worried, try being naked around him with the lights off at first, then move up to a little candle light maybe, gradually work up to having full lights on, I'm sure once you get used to it you will love it.
2006-11-03 03:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Slim 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are afraid of the way your body looks that he won't like it that is so strange really he has been having sex with you just start by getting naked in the dark if you need too but you are going to have to CZ I would be willing to bet someday he is going to get sick of this shy stuff let him touch your body and feel it then as you get comfortable with it try it with the lights on and I would say you need to go to a doctor and talk to them about your issue has the doc seen you naked I mean come on if the doc can see you naked the hubby should you going to make him jealous of your doctor hey there you go pretend he is your doctor play doctor that sounds like fun I can't wait for hubby to come home now!!!
2006-11-03 05:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see you have been married for a year and your husband has never seen you naked. are you that ashamed of your body that when you have sex you can't take all of your clothes off. i think it would be about time to let your husband see you totally naked
2006-11-03 04:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why do you feel so ashamed? Sex isn't something to be ashamed of and the human body is the most beautiful of things! Let him see you, kiss you, feel you... Let him explore the dips and curves...
We're not all perfect size six models but that doesn't make the ones of us who aren't any less of a lover!
Go on girl, drop the clothes and experience what sex is all about....
2006-11-03 04:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Fay 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have hidden issues that are causing you to feel this way.
It may be something happened to you that you dont even remember. It is NOT normal for your husband to never see
you naked. It is one thing to have sex with no lights on, but to
NEVER be naked around your husband..not normal. I suggest seeking counseling. Do it privately. You dont have to let anyone know that you are seeing a counselor, but I SERIOUSLY suggest it.
2006-11-03 03:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to u n him at that is all that matters. If he is understanding about it then that is great but perhaps u could make an effort to overcome your insecurities about your body.
2006-11-03 04:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by wotagem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get naked... you married him for god's sake!
go, take a shower with him, that'll get him turned on too, maybe make love in the shower:)
have fun with nakedness...
2006-11-03 03:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unbelivable, no women ever be covered during intercourse.either herself or husband wish to see her naked during the act.
2006-11-03 03:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋