I was engaged at one time and he hurt me. He used me for sex but I miss him and still love him. I want to at least stay friends. SHould I stay in contact with him?
2006-11-03 03:35:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you stay in contact with him, it's going to keep hurting you... at least for a while...
I would say, completly seperate yourself from his life for some time... a few months at least... then, if you still want to be friends, go ahead and try.. but don't be supprized if he tries to get into your pants... in his mind, he will try to 'get laid' again, and you let him befor...
2006-11-03 03:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 01:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Stay away from him. He'll only make you hurt more. Plus like the other girl said "FALSE HOPE". When a real good guy comes around you won't acknowledge him because of your ex.
Some things need to stay in the past and order to be happy again you need to close that DOOR!
2006-11-03 03:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That answer is really up to you. But from experience, I was with a guy for 6 years and I have seen him occasionally in the past year since we broke up and it seems like my life stops when hes around. Its harder for me to get on with my life and dating, because I'm so used to being with him and being comfortable. But I just don't have feeling for him anymore.
But your story is a bit different and I don't think I would want to hang around a guy that was just using me for sex. Unless you wanna be mean and use him right back whenever you want some! LOL! :)
2006-11-03 03:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be friends with someone who used you for sex!?!? That doesn't make sense! MOVE ON! He doesn't like you!!
If he can use you for sex, then he'll use you for something else!! The hell with him!
2006-11-03 03:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you two hang in the same of friends.
2006-11-03 03:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Dont put yourself through that. That gives you false hope. I have been there and done that. Move on it is healthier for you
2006-11-03 03:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy PR Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let sleeping dogs lie. unless you 2 share children, i wouldnt bother. find other to make friends with. if you speak with him, just dont fall for his bullsh*t .
2006-11-03 03:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay in contact with him. resolve in yourself that you can be happy without him. dont be a martyr or desperado thing.
2006-11-03 05:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean he asks you about friendship if I was you I would...
2006-11-03 06:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋