From my experience I find that guys are much more attracted to naughty girls....She mention she got really tight jeans and bought a pack of cigarettes to just light and hold but not really smoke...I see nothing wrong with that...I am a smoker and not encouraging her to smoke, but it she wants to use a lit cigarette to get attention and help her bad girl image...she is not hurting anything..she is not really smoking as she says ...just holding it and taking a puff or two.
2006-11-03 03:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by lindaminato 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The problem is WHAT SORT of guys are more attracted to naughty girls. They are basically the hard cases who are not going to be good for her anyway.
A gentleman prefers a woman who acts like a lady. Then when he has the opportunity to be alone with her, he will be a gentleman still.
And a gentleman never refuses a lady's request if he can help it. A lady knows how to take appropriate advantage of that fact.
2006-11-03 03:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What sort of attention does she seek? The 'naughty' image will attract the predatory males. These males are not quite as numerous as they seem because they move from female to female rather quickly by design. If it is her desire to become a predatory female, then she will get little joy from this. The more artful way to prey on males is to appear wholesome when you are not.
Nicotine is a jealous mistress. Just holding a cigarette and taking a puff or two occasionally is sufficient to begin a lifelong craving for cigarettes. Hers is a classic tale of many who are now crippled with emphysema or lung cancer. Everyone feels they are in control, at least at first. She's playing with fire both literally and figuratively.
The affluent society breeds much evil. Encourage her to deal with her own personality, trustworthiness, and existential value. The idea of form before function (image trumping reality) can only lead to a wasted life filled with neuroses.
2006-11-03 03:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nick â? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has to get a guy by acting or pretending, then I'm afraid she will find less reasons to be mad when a guy does the same to her. It's always better to get the real thing from someone. Besides a smoker knows how easy it is to "quit fake smoking" now, than to try later when the cig is the control in your life and one of the most addictive habits ever. I think that naughtiness should be given to guys that are special. So get a guy for being who you are then let him see you in other exciting ways.
2006-11-03 04:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Image is everything. If you pretend to be something long enough, you WILL become it. Living the lie will make it so.
How can a person persume to be true to themselves, if they are constantly lying to everyone else?
And, yes, guys are more attracted to naughty girls -- but only so they can do naughty things to them!
2006-11-03 04:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People People, this is probably a gag. Sounds like the same poster who got a job at a bar and took off her wedding ring to get bigger tips.
2006-11-03 06:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Adoptive Father 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to do it for herself, not for anyone else. There's not a problem with it really, but, why change who you are, if that isn't you... why change to please someone else, to get attention... it almost appears desparate to change her image, especially if she is making it clear she is changing her image. In 1-3 years, no one is going to care anyway what her image is now.... so why change?
2006-11-03 04:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman n i'm shy til u get to renowned me. i'm going to take a seat down in college quiet n no longer refer to every person n wen ppl refer to me i'm getting worried...... yet while ik u n have been pals i'm a lot greater outgoing .... I basically get worried around greater moderen human beings n i'm getting scared..... adult men continually calls me lovable n lovable cuz i'm shy, short, have been given a outstanding physique, im sweetheart til u piss me off, stuff like that......
2016-10-15 08:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. smoking is a turn off for me. nasty smell and nasty taste in mouth. have fun with that though. (sounds like someones doing awfully a lot for just attention from opposite sex)
2006-11-03 05:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋