My mum entered her picture in a competition ( which i wasnt aware of) and I have been approached to see if she could model for a reputable company im unsure if I should let her, she says she want to do it but.....I dont know? What would you do?
2006-11-03 01:44:06 · 32 answers · asked by Irishbird3 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
We had a talent agent approach us in a mall... ended up being a reputable agency and our daughter (then 4) wanted to try it. We decided that as long as she wanted to do it, she kept her grades up, if it didn't go to her head and it didn't interfere with friends and social life, she could do it. She did modeling for about 2 years and decided this summer she wanted a break from it. We'll see if she decides to get back into it or not.
I do feel that some of the classes she's been through have helped her. Things like confidence, poise and graciousness seem in short supply in our kids these days and I think they did help her blossom. I would have preferred her to be a little older but she has a good bank account started (make sure the agency you go with has a good accounting program). The agency took 10% of her income, we (her parents) got approximately 10% for expenses, another 10 to 20% goes into a fund for hair, makeup, clothes, etc. and the rest goes into a trust fund for her when she turns 18 (she'll get a percentage)and then 21 (the blance is open to her).
You need to look seriously at your daughter and at your own lifestyle. Is she mature enough to understand that there is a lot of rejection in this business? It doesn't mean she's not pretty, smart or funny it's just she's not what they're looking for at the moment. Also, there's a lot of emphasis put on how they look and how they present themselves. We allow our daughter to be a child when she's not on a shoot but there's a lot of parents who never let their kids be kids. Are you, your daughter and the rest of your family willing or able to travel if the need arises? Are you willing to put up with the other parents (let me tell you they can be a catty bunch and you're rarely sure of where you stand with them)? Does your daughter articulate well and are you willing to send her through classes (everything from speech to makeup to walking to... tons!) on top of her school work? Does your daughter have a good work ethic? These are things you need to take into account. It's not a glamourous world by any means but it can be a lot of fun if you approach it with the right attitude.
2006-11-03 02:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say no, unless the company is 101% above board and not a sleezy way to strip your daughter of all her dignity, self-respect, confidence etc. and believe me there are plenty of people out there who know how to persuade your child to do indescent acts, no matter how reputable they may seem.
Personally, let your daughter grow up, she is still a child, let her enjoy here childhood, then when she is of age then she can decide for herself. As for now, don't dishearten her, give her plenty of encouragement in other areas. I'm sorry to say, but it's an evil society we live in and people are quick to cash in on what they think will be a good investment for there own future.
2006-11-04 06:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by patch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it up to your daughter. If she wants to, then let her do it. However, if she is not liking it, I wouldn't pressure her to continue. Modeling/acting can be a fun thing for young children, and a great learning experience. I would also talk to your mom about doing something with YOUR child behind your back. What if it wasn't a reputable company and some perv had a pic and info on your daughter? Scary thought!!!
2006-11-03 05:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say if she wants to do it, let her do it.
But - and this is key - the MOMENT is stops being fun for her, STOP. Don't force her to go into it if it isn't what she wants. A child model is not a "career" - it should be seen as more of an activity. If she doesn't want to do it anymore, at any point in time, stop. And don't ever let her forget that she's just a child. Let her play, have fun, make sure she stays well grounded (chores, etc.).
Those are all key things. Make sure she maintains some sense of normalcy and don't let it get to her head.
2006-11-03 01:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lexie 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
from everything i have heard from watching "america next top model" tyra banks tells all of her up and coming models that a reputable agancy will never ask the model to pay for anything. if the agency wants a *fee* to register you, they arent a good agency.
As for your daughter, it can be a huge ego boost, which can be good or bad. most importantly, its a job, and she has to know that its a job, and that she isn't the most important person in the room. if she can follow directions, and do what she is told, she might just be great!
i'd also just agree on a trust fund for her earnings. college is expensive, and its also a way for her to know she will get a car when she is older.
Good Luck!
2006-11-03 01:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It would depend on my daughter. If she could handle being a model and still do her schoolwork without her life becoming too full, then I probably would let her try it. If she wants to, maybe you could try it on a trial basis and see how it goes. If it is too much, then you could tell her she needs to wait until she is a little older, Good luck in whatever you decide.
2006-11-03 01:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 08:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by liguori 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your daughter would like to model then I would personally give her a chance at it,and if she succeeds then you know you have made the right choice,but if you realize some slacking in other activities like school then I would have her take a break.And then if you feel it's right then let her go back.But one last thing if the modeling company wants you to pay then don't do it because if they want her bad enough then they won't make her pay.
2006-11-03 02:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you and only you know your daughters characteristics and you will know if she could handle the pressure of schoolwork and model work, its alot to take in but also a big opportunity for her!
ask her what she wants to do and then give it a trial run, tell her if she can do both without her grades dropping then she can do the modeling but if she cant cope with all the work the modeling will have to wait until she is older!
that should settle it!
good luck!
2006-11-03 12:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's a reputable model agency and you are there to chaperone her ..Yeah go for it.
I think all modelling agencies have to be registered so I'd check first..
Also speak to other kids who are with the agency and get there views.
Apart from the obvious fears be careful with parting with large amounts of money for portfolios and promises of work.
Good luck
2006-11-03 01:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Red 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋