jeans last night and they look so good in the mirror, but I am a little self consious about wearing them out...since I am not usually seen in this type of outfit...I also bought a pack of Marlboro 100 cigarettes to use as a prop...I am not really going to smoke them much..just light them and hold them and take a drag every now and then...for looks...how do I break the ice with everyone that I am not the same debra...I am afraid I will be embarrassed...but I really want to do this...a short tight top is next.
2006-11-03 01:30:00 · 9 answers · asked by debra_d13 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Can I ask why you've decided not to be the same debra? If you have to plan what your image will be for the night, I think it's pretty much a given that you're not being yourself. Which is never the right thing to do.. Just be you and everyone will love you for it.
Better to be hated for who you are than be loved for who you're not...
2006-11-03 01:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I may sound like an old fart, but PLEASE DON'T use the cigarette. It only takes a few puffs to become addicted. I know, I smoked for 20 years and couldn't quit. It was absolute hell. I had friends who died of lung cancer and emphysema and couldn't quit. It doesn't look cool or mature. It really is just dumb. Seriously, you may think you can puff a few, but believe me this stuff is made to get you hooked. Check out the forums on quitnet.com, specifically the one called quitstop. These are people trying to quit. If you just read the posts you'll see that I am not kidding. It is soooo hard to stop and you never know which cigarette will start the cancer.
As for the tight jeans, if you look good then don't feel sef conscious! You'll look great and smell great with tight jeans and no smokes. (if you smoke you'll smell bad. I didn't notice how bad smokers smell until I quit!)
2006-11-03 01:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the jeans, ditch the cigarettes. Health is much more important than image. Take it from a smoker. In fact, smoking is no longer even considered cool.
One can still change their image by dressing conservatively hot (nixing the bra comes to mind also) and not having a cigarette as a prop. Maybe throw in some jewelry as a prop instead.
2006-11-03 01:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by mrnaturl1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys are more attracted to naughty girls -- but only so they can do naughty things to them!
Just remember, image is everything. If you pretend to be something long enough, you WILL become it. Living the lie will make it so.
How can a person persume to be true to themselves, if they are constantly lying to everyone else?
2006-11-03 04:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a drastic change from what you once were.
If you really want this change, wear it with pride, stand tall and proud.
Don't worry about what other people think or say, but remember they will talk behind your back, be prepared for that.
Good Luck.
2006-11-03 01:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smoking in order to appear to be a different person has got to be one of the dumbest things I have ever heard. Please tell me you aren't some 16 year old immature girl looking for attention because mommy and daddy don't love you any more.
2006-11-03 01:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by Italian Mule 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the cigs, tho, nothing worse than having someone around who smells like an ashtray. You don't need them to change your image; your outfit sounds like it will do that for you.
2006-11-03 01:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by cool_breeze_2444 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-09 01:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe in yourself. No matter what you're wearing.
2006-11-03 01:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by LMBFAO! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋