2006-11-03 01:25:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
You are wayyyyyyyy to young to have a baby. If you don't have a stable career, money and a home of your own you are not ready for a baby. You need to finish school and enjoy your youth. You are still a kid and can't even write a sentence properly. Stay in school, have fun being young and have a baby when you are married and can provide the right way instead of living off others.
2006-11-03 01:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you and "babydady" want to have a kid at 15, you both are stupid and crazy.
You are too young, naive, immature to have a baby. You are still a kid. How will you pay for the diapers, clothes, wipes, formula? Welfare? I guarantee "babydady" doesn't have a good paying job at 15 (I'm assuming and hoping your bf is the same age) Do you know how hard it is to care for a child? Your teenage years and care-free days will be OVER.
Get an education and a career, a stable relationship before you THINK of having kids! And get on birth control, better yet, just stop having sex altogether!
2006-11-03 01:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Jenn♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my first at 15 my second at 16 and my third at 18. They all were by the same person. I love my children but it was the worst thing I ever did. I had no teenage years, I wanted to run the streets not be a parent. After I had the kids my baby daddy decided he was to young to settle down and help raise the kids so he just kept a job and payed child support and ran the streets. It is alot of work. It sounds all good to you now but things don't always turn out how they sound. I am happily married now (not with my baby daddy mind you) and now my husband wants us to have a baby of our own. I will be a mother of four. Not really what I had planned for my life. It wasn't my husbands fault I had 3 children before him. So just some things to think about. Try to wait until your older and with someone you know will be there maybe even wait until your married. Be a strong women and listen to your heart and it will tell you the wright thing to do.
2006-11-03 01:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane? Not a good idea right now. You obviously need to continue you education. Besides there is no guarantee your "babydady" (geez) will stick by your side. Try watching Maury Povich once in a while and get a clue. While your body may be "physically" ready to have a child, your mind defiantly is not.
Maybe you need to see if your school has one of those "life-like" babies you can take home for an extended period of time. Its similar (had to do it in high school) and it may change your mind. it sure did for me. I am 23 now, married, and just now made the decision to have a child.
2006-11-03 04:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by LadyJ1583 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a baby now... It might seem like it's a grown-up thing to do, but in reality it's like being grounded for 10-15 years. And that's if you and the father are married or at least living together! Raising a baby is a ton of work - I know, I've done it. And my wife worked even harder at it.
Besides, you'd miss all the stuff in life that a teenager is supposed to do - parties, dates, fun with your friends, college, etc.
Wait at least until you're done with college, and you've been out working for a year or two supporting just yourself. That means paying for your car, your rent, all your bills yourself. Then think about getting married and having a baby. You will thank yourself for being patient!
2006-11-03 01:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait and enjoy your life before you bring another life into this world. You need to finish school and get your education so that you are not another statistic. There is notheing wrong with getting help from the government but if you have a baby this young then you are like 90% going to have to have help from the government. Things happen and people make mistakes but you are not there yet and getting pregnant would not be a mistake in oyur condition because you are trying to have a baby.
2006-11-03 01:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by mommy of two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my oldest when I was 17....I was all excited about having a baby. I love my kid with all my heart, but now I wish I had waited. Right now I'm sure it sounds like a great idea because you wanna show your boyfriend how much you love him, and you think by getting pregnant will do that. If you love each other, wait for a baby...Have fun together while your young. Life is rough when you get pregnant young. You lose most of your friends, because all your time gets spent on taking care of your baby. You wont go to your prom because you'll need to be taking care of your baby. You wont get to do all the fun stuff that normal teenagers/young adults get to do...So just wait honey, It's for the best.
2006-11-03 01:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by strawberry_cream530 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a baby that young, be careful. The daddy will not always stick around and you probably will not get to finish school. Also, your body is still going through changes so it would be a little harder on you to be pregnant. You may wish to wait a couple years and see how your relationship is going then. Since you are so young, if you still live with your parents you may wish to discuss this with them. It would effect their lives as well. Good luck.
2006-11-03 01:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already asked about having a baby when you're 15 and in ninth grade. I don't think the answers will change. Don't do it. Do yourself a favor and wait until you graduate from high school at very least and are married. Good luck.
2006-11-03 01:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't even write correctly, and you want to have a baby. If you want to throw your life away, it's your choice, but you need to think of your parents who will end up taking care of the kid when you want to go to the prom, (if you even finish highschool). Also the kid who will most likely be without a father by the time it's 3. Daddy will get tired of you and leave.
2006-11-03 01:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋