22/M ok, well just 5 days ago my girlfriend got into bed with another man at her apt. and he was naked, she said she didnt plan on doing anything with him and she then said that she got raped. I broke up with her cuz i thought she cheated on me. But she got into the bed as her own will. You can read some of my questions a few explain it more. She been begging me to go out with her but i say no, and she wants me to come see her this weekend. But i dont know if i should or not. What should i do?
2006-11-03 01:23:30 · 7 answers · asked by john 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there...
Doesn't matter whether if she was naked, or if she was not. The matter is that you caught her at the right time, and now you know that you must move on. She isn't relationship material, and so you left. When I left a woman who cheated on me, it felt good, because there wasn't any doubt in my mind that I was making the right choice. Plus, I was confident in my ability to find someone who was better than her. You made the right choice (100%), and never doubt yourself. In fact, you can learn from this (that's why never regret dating her in the first place). The integrity she has can be understood by comparing the action that she makes when she's with you, versus when she's not. If you talked to your woman more, and asked her questions, and listened to her, you may have noticed that she was cheating on you or not (do this next time you find the one). In fact, do this to keep your relationship lively. You'll know what I mean when you practice this more often or if you do already. Here's what I wrote for your other question:
It's not crazy, and I've heard of many situations like this. You shouldn't overreact... Take a deep breath, calm down, and never ever talk to her again. If you happen to pick up the phone and find out its her, quickly hang up. I know it's rude and it may be painful for a while, but its a better way to move on than to keep arguing with her about whether you two are together or not.
Good luck finding a keeper in the future!
2006-11-03 01:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by DN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did get in with her own will, she cheated on u. U don't deserve some1 who isn't commited 2 a relationship. U deserve more respect......U deserve better. Good Luck!!
2006-11-03 01:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say find someone new, some one who cheated on you then turns around and says that she got raped is bad news, find someone else if i were you. good luck
2006-11-03 01:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mintiez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, i'd give her a second chance...
show him how much you love her and that
you really care for her...
...
She'll be guilty and will try to fyt with her concience
until she gave up...
she'll say your the best!!! she'll love you na...
...
plus, think about it, if she doesn't love you anymore,
why would she be exerting hard efforts to be with you
again?... hehe!
2006-11-03 01:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by crystal and clover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away...bad news. Move on and find someone better!
2006-11-03 01:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to find a girlfiend,,,she wasn't one!!!
2006-11-03 01:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 simple words--FIND SOMEONE ELSE.
2006-11-03 01:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋