How do you deal with it? Does your child or grandchild experience the wicked awful outbursts, the screaming, the irrational talk etc? Did you institutionalize your child...just how did you manage to not lose your mind?
2006-11-03 01:20:44 · 3 answers · asked by empress_pam 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My daughter is 3 and I am in the same shoes. And I agree with the statement that the more you tell them to stop the more they keep doing it. It was really hard at first to ignore but then as time goes on it gets a little easier but still hard on the heart to ignore them. At times I just want to sit and cry for her. But she goes to a special preschool three days a week and that really has helped her alot she also has therapy twice a week. I try and play with her alot. I think that the other hard thing that I deal with is getting the other children around her (Siblings Cousins) to understand why she is the way she is because they are always telling on her for doing something and they are always getting on her for something that is the hardest part I think. But everyone is dealt the cards that god wanted them to have and God must think that we can handle it. Because he blessed us with such special children. The best of luck to you.
2006-11-03 05:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I been in your shoes I have 3 children who act out very abusively, you have to ask yourself if you can ignore most, the 3 things to remember that you can not ignore is 1: The child damages property. 2: They hurt others 3: and most important there not hurting themselves. Everything else ignore the language, the temper tantrums, the more you tell your child to stop swearing, the more you tell your child to stop banging the floor or making noises, your only incouraging them to keep doing it, they see you getting stressed and that is there way of getting your attention its negative attention but its attention, so look for them doing good things like playing quietly, saying thank you, picking up there toys when you see this say wtg I am very proud of you for doing what ever they did, they will eventually stop everything cause there getting positive attention not negative attention.
Good Luck!
2006-11-03 02:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy for the child and the parents/grandparents...researching this condition, communicating with others in your situation, maybe meds.
2006-11-03 01:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋