is it RIGHT to have sex before marriage?

Question

I don't think so, I just wanted ur opinion

Answer 1

if you know you had to buy a pair of shoes and you only had so much to buy them with and you knew that you had to stay with that pair for a long time .would you just walk in the store and grab any pair of the shelf with out trying them on or looking at them no we wouldn't .................right so the same goes for men !!!!! now I'm not saying you have to be a nasty girl just pick right and make sure you don't over do it.........

Answer 2

I'm with you that it's not, but everyone will have a different opinion.

My reasons for no sex before marriage are somewhat grounded in my Christian faith, however mostly it's practical:
1.) Why would someone want to marry you knowing that you've had so much sex before marriage that you've got an STD?
2.) Kids need a mother and father that love each other, the single parent thing statistically doesn't work all that well.
3.) 2 incomes are better than just 1 when it comes to supporting a child or children
4.) If you're mature enough to be in a comitted relationship, you're mature enough to be able to take care of a child.

Just my thoughts.

Answer 3

It is not right, but at the same time it is right. It is not right because you don't really love the person that you have sex with. Some people do love that person, but sex is like a commitment and marriage is a commitment. People think having sex before marriage is okay because the love the person, but then they break up and dont get marry. You can have sex with the only you really love and you have waited a long time to have sex with that person. The sex will be so speical because you and him haven had sex before.

Answer 4

It's a personal choice. Many people think you have to try out the goods before you get hitched. But if the only reason you're getting married is for the sex, then you might want to re-think it. If you decide to wait until after you're married and a re unhappy with your sex life, you both have the rest of your lives together to learn to please each other. It is a learning experience, not a contest and two people who truly love each other will enjoy taking the time to explore each other's bodies, likes and dislikes.

Answer 5

I think you should, but responsibly! (Has to be said!) Sex is like hunger that needs to be quenched. It's healthy and normal and very important for physical as well as emotional balance.

I think it would be disasterous to enter into a marriage not knowing what to expect in the bedroom. For both parties! Finding that a couple is sexually compatible is equally as important as any other interests they share that brought them together in the first place!

Waiting for marriage to enjoy sex is an old wives tale left behind from the "Leave it to Beaver" days where the wife stays barefoot and pregnant, in the kitchen!

Answer 6

It is all personal opinion. People have opinions for different reasons like religion or their up-bringing.

My feeling is sex is a big part of a relationship and for me I want to know that we are compatible sexually before I commit to that person for life. Once I walk down the isle with any luck it will be forever.

Answer 7

In my case i did have sex before marriage and i glad i did some of the partner that i had we found out that we were not satisfying each other so we stop and went a separate ways. my wife and i had sex before we got marriage and she and i have been sexily happy for years now.. So what i trying to say try before you buy.

Answer 8

This assumes that sex is unrelated to love. If you're in love with someone sex is more than just a physical release, scratching of an itch, as it were. If you love someone, sex is the ultimate experience of that love. If you decide to put it off that's a personal decision but why deny what's a natural act between two people.

Answer 9

It is wrong to have sex before marriage:
1) becoz it is sin, It does not please God
2) becoz you can get pregnant and if the guy drops you, you suffer alone with a child, in otherwords, there are so many problems/risks involved.
3) If the man lures into sex be4 marrying you, he might not trust you. He'll know that any other man can drag you into sex.
4)etc.

Answer 10

nope, not right, it stuffs it up for conservative pple who save it for after marriage, if they meet someone they really like and want to marry, and then find out he/she 's not the same then they're really stuffed.

There's also an age issue, i think under 20 pple are too young to be given the responsibility of their own virginity. It's like those 20 somethings preying on girls in highschool and early uni, not right at all.

Answer 11

To me its not a question of right or wrong; it's whatever feels right to you. Personally,I would never get married to someone without knowing how we worked together sexually. I don't believe in a God that passes moral judgment on sexual behaviour. I know there are others that feel differently, but I have thought about it carefully and am comfortable with the decisions I have made for myself.