I can figure out why everytime I think I'm in a good relationship or a find a "good" guy they only turn out to use me. I'm not a bad person, but seem to only attract the wrong guys....
2006-11-03 01:11:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BE patient. Mr. Right will find you when you least expect it. Good Luck.
2006-11-03 01:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all been there! It seems that the bad guys know how to manipulate us, and we often tend to push the truly "good" guys away because they're too safe and don't have that dangerous appeal we seem to love so much! You just seem to be unlucky hon, and it's a question of belief in yourself - you learn from what you've done previously, and as long as you know you're worth more than what these bad guys are doing to you (and you ARE worth a lot more than that), then you'll find someone who truly appreciates you sooner rather than later. :)
2006-11-03 09:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Amazon Karen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you happy with yourself? If you need to "tweek" a few things about you would you be willing to do so? My advice, is never settle. If he isn't "into you" then move on. Give 100% and do not tolerate anyone who will give you back any less than that. I think everyone needs a chance. And unfortunately, you have to pick through a lot of "weeds" until you find a "flower!"
2006-11-03 09:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is not just an outward look. It comes from within too. A beautiful flower with inner fragrance, will automatically attracts all the bees and butterflies.
2006-11-03 09:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet when you're dating someone...all the DECENT GUYS you were HOPING to meet come out of the wood work?! All saying..TOO BAD YOU'RE SEEING SOMEONE...BREAK UP WITH THAT PERSON...and when you're single you can't attract lint?! RIGHT?!
I know..I was the same way...But MR. RIGHT is out there...Just be patient~ He has to go through his own personal hell before you both find love in each other...TRUST ME...I had the same thing happen and I FINALLY met and married my MR.RIGHT!
2006-11-03 09:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously being a door mate. Most likely you are too nice and they feel that get things by you, they try and find out they can os they continue to do so.
2006-11-03 09:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from ur mistakes and it'll help u in future thats what i did and i found mr right. sometimes it takes a while, u jus need patience, maybe go for guys u wudn't normally go for, u'll be suprise what u get. and it cud be the best thing u ever done.
2006-11-03 09:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This time when you feel you like someone, introduce him to someone you trust and listen to them. It would also help you to just not think about getting into a relationship right now and focus on self-introspection.
2006-11-03 09:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by want to help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men r jerks... u just have 2 take time 2 weed out the good 1's
2006-11-03 09:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry honey you will find the right person, but most guys are only looking for one thing, so be careful.
2006-11-03 09:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by belfiglioval 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋