My boyfriend doesnt really turn me on anymore and im too scared to tell him this. Does anyone know of any good ways he can turn me on that i can drop into conversation with him and get him to do in bed? We both still live at home. Thanks xxx
2006-11-03 00:22:57 · 25 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good way to get the conversation going to to watch a film which you know has a sex scene in it and get talking on the subject. Another way is to tell him that you had a dream last night which had him doing all the stuff you like and then get him to re-create the moment!
2006-11-03 00:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you both live at your respective homes! Probably your parents homes? You can not be comfortable or relaxed! You probably and he probably worries that someone will walk in on you so that makes you rush what you are doing! You need to enjoy the moment and take as long as BOTH of you need to get complete satisfaction. SO, get a place together or at least go away to a hotel for a weekend and enjoy each other.
This answer is for people over 18! I hope you are!
2006-11-03 08:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him he doesn't turn you on anymore, but you can ask him if he doesn't want to try something new. You can come with a suggestion (something that you know or think would turn you on, a new position for example) and see if he's up to trying it. This is a subtle way to get him to try something new and more exciting.
Good luck.
2006-11-03 08:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by undir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea cant make yerself get turned on as I,ve tried with my wife andam stuck may get out but the longer the wait the more complicated so think it over weve been together 12 yrs now adn the last few have been real rough
2006-11-03 08:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Book: The Joy Of Sex by some doctor cant remember. good book though.
Ask him to give u a real sensual massage and tell you things he thinks are beautiful about your body.
2006-11-03 08:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bexx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you like and what turns you on, Guys like when they know what you want and how to make you feel good! Try introducing a toy or a new position!
2006-11-03 08:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Born Country 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try being creative...
go on a first date again... have fun and tease him and have him tease you all day long... by the end of the night you'll be more receptive after the nice gestures all day long...
be creative in bed... routine kills the spice and then you are not turned on.
let your imagination run wild and his thingy too :)
2006-11-03 08:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one know you better then you. How do we know what turns you on. Only you know, tell him the things that you like to have done to you or you like to do to him.>
2006-11-03 08:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't turn you on, why do you want to stay with him? break up with him. you don't have to tell him"everything" when it comes to why you're dumping him. Don't lie, but 100% disclosure is not always the best policy.... especially since you stated that you're scared to tell him.
2006-11-03 08:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not turn you on and you are afraid to discuss this with him then break up with him and find a new boyfriend.
2006-11-03 08:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋