I always had this attraction for black woman . Since i was in 3 or 4th grade and this black girl monigue use to twirl her fingers through my hair while she sat behind me in class, lol. I went to like 90% black schools in new orleans and was raised in foster care so most of the people around me were black and it didnt matter cause it was all I knew I guess. I like white girls but I look at black woman differently . They dont always look back the same way lol . I hear you cute for a white boy but its hard for me relationship wise. white girls tend to find me brash and they say I talk different. I try to explain im me and I dont pretend its my accent and I cant change it. My friends joke you not white u a black man trapped in a white man body, but deep inside I hurt. Cause im not accepted by both races sometimes. I been with several black woman intimately ,like 17 or so, but im 29 so thats normal . do you find it abnormal to feel this way? any suggestions?
2006-11-02 23:44:42 · 11 answers · asked by streetkritic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i been with some white girls too under ten though but they are cool too, I kinda lower the number on the black woman , it was fairly high and I didnt want to seem like some freak . which i am lol
2006-11-03 00:06:04 · update #1
thanks for the honest answers its nice to know we still got good people in the worls
2006-11-03 00:08:28 · update #2
umm white girls i been with was total of ten , not under ten just to clarify that, so read it correctly lol man i better proof read for now on
2006-11-03 00:11:29 · update #3
Its what you've grown up with & what you've been used to so its not abnormal. It sounds like its the people around you that have a problem with the way you act & talk not that you have a problem with them. A lot of people can be quite narrow minded, you've just got to find that person that takes you for who you are...you must be special to be able to relate to other races, a trait which should be encourage as so many others single each other out.
2006-11-02 23:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change the way that you are-the way you talk or act. It must have been difficult for you to have been raised in foster care. That may be some of the reasons that you feel pain. If you are more attracted to black women then I don't see a problem with that. You did not mention ever being with a white woman so I guess that you never have. Maybe a mixed race woman would be another avenue for you to explore. Be with a white woman if you want to and see how you like it!
2006-11-02 23:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were raised different than most white boys! Most people dont understand you because they dont know where you are comeing from. I am a black female and I was raised in Missouri all white people in the school my family was the only blacks, when I moved to California all blacks they said the did not like me because I act as if I was better, like I was a white girl. I did not let it bother me. Now today I am with a white man and have a mixed pretty daughter! So don't let people get to you!
2006-11-02 23:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by lil_mama69smokie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it not abnormal at all. You've been growing up with black women around you. It doesn't matter what the color of the skin is, it matters who they are inside and if the two of you match. In terms of suggestions, go out with whoever you want to go out with. In this day and age of increasing globalization, it's become more accepted to have interracial relations and it seems like while you do not look like them, you have adapted to their mannerisms. Good luck.
2006-11-02 23:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by joe19 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal? i donno its a matter of preference its human though. personally i have never found myself attracted to other races its just a thought that never entered my mind, not to say that there aren't some beautiful people of other races in the world, but its not my FIRST thought when i see someone... thinking about what u said about ur upbringing i guess it makes sense ur attracted to what u are USED to and i guess that is how most people are they are used to their race or what environment they are raised in...
I think its a matter of personal preference or what ur comfortable with. and yes i 'm sorry i have been one of those "ur cute for a white boy" persons, but don't take it personally its actually a complement b/c they at least considered u. Smile its gone b fine much love!
2006-11-02 23:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Those coloured girls have unreal bod's, there like larger than life, and certainly i think they are more beautiful than little anorexic lookin white girls (like me!). I'm attracted to heavy guys- Go Figure! There's no rules when it comes to attraction it's true love that counts. Good luck in your quest man.
2006-11-02 23:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Bexx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure you are normal. We all have certain attributes we need in a man and if he happens to be black or brown then that is part of his beauty.
I have a wonderful black man in my life.His skin is beautiflu.
It is his spirit tha this kindness the attaratc
I am falling sdleep
2006-11-02 23:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, yeah I guess it is, though I'm attracted to hispanic women, and asian's a little, black woman, just beyonce, mexicans, eva longoria, asian don't know! but I guess it has ben hardd fo ya brotha, well take it ez!
2006-11-03 11:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be with whomever you want to be and color and or race should have no bearing on it. Don't listen to anyone and live as you want to and do what makes you happy not them.
2006-11-02 23:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they have a great sex drive.
2006-11-02 23:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋