why one u go for in india...
2006-11-02 23:42:42 · 15 answers · asked by SmartGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the couple. Both result in failed and/or miserable marriages that sometimes end up in divorce and sometimes not. It is better in the case of arranged marriage to at least know each other - not just accept who your parents pick. My brother had an arranged marriage but they got to know each other and fall in love before they got married.
Irregardless of who you marry (love or arranged), there are a lot of adjustments that need to be made and it's all a new world when you get married - even if you know or love the person for a long time. So, it goes by individual case & needs.
2006-11-02 23:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by ami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love or arranged both can end up into a break up or failure. But if u go 4 love marriage beyond ur family's will & if ultimately sth. goes wrong u r not going 2 get a back up from ur family but if wrong comes into way in case of arranged marriage u will atleast get a family backup. From my pt. of view better 2 go 4 arranged marrige bcoz love marriage has got more risk & inassurance than an arranged one.
2006-11-03 07:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by sohini b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love marriage of course. As for me, I don't believe in so-called "arranged" marriages. I just don't see how something like that could work in today's society.
2006-11-03 07:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOVE marriage! Arrange ones is so sad...
2006-11-03 07:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by confussie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
an arranged situation where love comes into it before marriage
2006-11-03 07:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being in love is the best way to start a marriage.
2006-11-03 07:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
firstly i dont want all to think this does not exist, right now in my country, they are still doing it, so firstly imagine how is it going to be if it happen to you?
well love is the foundation of any lasting relationship, without love there is not that that relationship will hold on to.
those who engage in arranged marriage to satisfied thier parent curiousity, suffer the consiquence for they are the one that endure like a solder to be use like dirt rage.
2006-11-03 07:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by phemmy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love marriage is always on the cards, bcoz u know each other likes and dislikes and do the thing which results in disputes in relationship.
anyway lov or arranged u need to know the person with whom u r going to marry?
2006-11-03 07:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rahman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An arranged marriage is not normal. And it isn't right. You as a person have a right to marry whomever you want to.
2006-11-03 07:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wen ur in luv ur expectations r on peak n after marriage it all changes but its gud too b in luv mar. if ur ready to face the ups n downs . So dnt think go 4 it
2006-11-03 07:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by neha sharma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋